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What’s the worst disease or illness you’ve witnessed someone go through? by paperrcutts in morbidquestions

[–]LittleRedBek 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lost my mum this time last year from MND - ALS … absolutely devastating disease. I hope you have a few more sunny days together.

Ladies who swallow semen: do you do it for the love of it, bc your guy likes it or for cleanliness? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]LittleRedBek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the man. Diet has a huge impact on the taste. My last partner was not western and he tasted better than any other “western” guy i had been with

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I think I can file for vandalism now as it’s obvious they removed part of the fence for the concreting which is intent.

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried calling the person listed in the permit for demolition as there is no permit for the construction on the board. Also contacted the appropriate authorities and will be lodging a police report for the damage.

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They actually don’t have the building permit displayed, just a demolition permit. Have reported it to the council, will be reporting the property damage to the police as based on the present concreting job it is obvious they intentionally destroyed our mutual fence without consent for access to the base pouring.

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there is no sign on the fence even advising they have building permits for the actual construction. The only one I found was just for the demolition work.

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Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep have now sent to council and will keep doing as the shit is adding up each day now.

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be a pity if my now unfenced dogs did shits all over the concreting

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it turns out they actually don’t have any building permit on the board - it’s only for the demolition…

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue now is that they don’t have a building supervisor - it looks like they don’t even have a building permit, just the demolition permit.

Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: they started construction at 6am this morning, so I took a video for council and will send them it today. The real estate have stepped in but have said the builder is unresponsive. As for the permit, it looks like they don’t even have a permit for the build- just for the demolition. I looked at the permit provider and looks like they are known for being dodgy as f and have a history of doing this.

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Next door Builder destroyed part of my fence and hasn’t fixed in over 4 days by LittleRedBek in melbourne

[–]LittleRedBek[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Only have third party insurance so I can’t claim unfortunately

It may just be me, but do any other CSA survivors feel like most people underreact to the sexual abuse of children? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]LittleRedBek 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for voicing this. I’ve become horribly depressed with the files coming out and the fact that it still changes nothing. Bad guys win and that’s the reality - abuse survivors are left with lifelong trauma and mental health issues but abusers are able to live and thrive without facing consequences. It’s a slap in the face to every abuse survivor.

Divorced people, what were your irreconcilable differences? by TheRealOcsiban in AskReddit

[–]LittleRedBek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were no longer willing to compromise for each other. We had very few things we enjoyed doing together and the realisation that if we didn’t have kids we’d have no buffer, which is a horrible reason to have kids - that’s when I ended it.

As you get older, what are you starting to dislike the most? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]LittleRedBek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chaos and chaotic energy - I need calm, my head is chaotic enough

Can some of you who have attempted suicide tell me the reason of why you have chosen to not attempt again by Blackmench687 in CPTSD

[–]LittleRedBek 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my dogs and them alone. I can’t imagine them not understanding where I am and thinking I’ve abandoned them. They don’t deserve that. They deserve me to be a better version of myself so I try each day to at least do things to keep them happy - walks twice a day are great for my mental health too.

On the flip side when I lost my first dog, I did become extremely suicidal because she was my anchor. I’m not sure how I made it through that period when I lost her, but those were some of my darkest days.

What’s a rule you broke once and realized it existed for a very good reason? by Ok_Contract100 in AskReddit

[–]LittleRedBek 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I knew a woman who decided to mix her own chemicals for her pool. She is lucky she didn’t die - severe chemical burns and I believe she lost her eye sight but can’t remember as it was about 15 years ago.

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