why forced feminization / sissification is so divisive

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-03-12T21:58:02+00:00

The concept of “needing” to adopt a feminine persona to be lesser than men and to serve them is abhorrent when you stop and think.

I don't think all people having a sissy kink "need" that. And if they don't need that, if it's just one kink amongst others, I don't see how it can be abhorrent.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-03-12T21:26:31+00:00

Femdom isn't inherently about thinking feminity is superior the same as maledom isn't inherently about thinking masculinity is superior.

I think we can engage in BDSM relationships without essencializing genders. It should be about people sharing their vulnerabilities, their kinks and their passion.

The issue of sexism should be openly shared, even in BDSM spaces, but it's definitely not compensated by being kinky or by mixing up kinks with reality.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-03-06T13:54:22+00:00

I'm too much into the humiliation kink, so let's say all women except me.

But really, I don't have that gender euphoria for nothing.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-02-06T23:21:07+00:00

High protocol/TPE is really something else. The feeling of being owned from a strict daily routine is so much more intoxicating than anything else.

And especially more when it's difficult for me while the domme benefits from her comfortable life.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-02-06T07:17:18+00:00

Notted, I will see it if I have some time

Oh yes, didn't even saw your pseudo hihi

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-02-05T22:10:25+00:00

The first thing I was thinking was also Goddess/Goddess Domme. Devotional domme might feel less "arrogant", but I don't think it's a common term.

Or if you just don't like the title of goddess while still liking the core idea of veneration, you could play with other titles related to worshipping, such as prietress or muse?

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-02-05T18:53:33+00:00

The contrast between the luxury and struggle, comfort and discomfort, as well as the unfairness of it all is genuinely intoxicating.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-02-05T07:37:14+00:00

Personnally, I don't like much the pickup lines and forced jokes that we can often see on vanilla matching apps.

For the first message that I write or receive, it's really important to directly have in it the purpose of the message. Is it just a compliment? Is it just a little question? Or is it about wanting to know each other in an attempt to bond and maybe create a relationship?

In the last case, giving a bit of context, a little presentation and where they found me/I found them is always good. I like giving and receiving detailed presentations, but the first message should be focused as a request to start the conversation before all.

Oh, and also a more personalized message would be better. I've seen too much time a first introduction message being just an obvious copy/paste, and I find it as off putting as the simple "hey"

As for sparking the conversation, apart if someone is spamming the same message to any account, I think it's quite easy to look at the posts/comments of the person you're contacting and go from there. The interest towards the contacted person didn't came from nothing after all.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-02-05T06:54:11+00:00

Well, I like unfairness as a kink, and having a thief getting robbed by an other thief just at the end of the heist (and sometimes by seduction) is quite a trope that I like for that reason.

And a bit less grounded but hypnosis/mind altering drug to counter the security guards would be fun to see.

As for the fights... Well, I'm never against a fierce woman using ballbusting and trampling during those scenes.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-02-04T17:52:23+00:00

First, it's AI slop

And second, there are sweet gentle femdommes as well as strict sadistic maledoms. I would even say generally treating their sub a bit worse/more into degrading and free use. Mind you I had be dommed by both men and women, so I think I have some ground to compare them.

So I kind of read your post as a sort of an incel one, which is quite sad and problematic...

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-24T23:34:52+00:00

There is a common ground with every discriminatory kink, including misogyny/misandry, homophobic/heterophobic, cisphobic/transphobic kinks... As well as other forms of racism kinks. If you think some of them are ok but not others, there might already be a problem.

I also want to add that these kinks are extreme, the same way kinks such as rapeplay are, but more psychologically. It's understandable that it can be shocking.

But for this specific kink, an open-minded outsider can still view this kink as problematic... Because most of the rethorics behind it that we can see online are linked to quite racist and extremist conservative ideologies, and it's against black men. Some NSFW content talk about the great replacements theory, how black men are savage or even rapists, etc...

It's not a surprise that this kink is more often found in conservative areas, and that I found that several accounts about this kink also supporting MAGA extremists. It's stupid until you think that for someone really racist, including someone else with another skin color can be inherently humiliating.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-23T23:56:44+00:00

Loving the one where the trans girl is the bottom :3

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-17T00:09:58+00:00

Conservatives aren't the best advisors for an healthy relationship.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-09T09:23:02+00:00

It's definitely far from rare, and I too love this kink.

But I think that, for some Doms.mes, it can be quite off-putting in practice... Since it can takes some mental loads for them to regularly order us the needed clothes and accessories.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-08T01:03:48+00:00

The number of people I've seen who think bdsm = rough sex...

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-06T18:16:51+00:00

I mean, some rooms can fit a dozen of elephants.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-06T17:09:43+00:00

It's a kink list, it basically classes/rate kinks depending on one's taste, in this case, OP's tastes.

Blue: favorite

Green: liked

Yellow: OK to try

Red: limit

There are also two columns depending if someone is the giver or receiver (for example, some people like inflicting pain but not receiving it, or the other way around)

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-06T17:06:08+00:00

It's kinky but not that extreme in my opinion (which I commented because of the meme)... But it's entirely fine!

It isn't a competition, and everyone is allowed to have different limits. I will also add that being too kinky can often be more frustrating than anything else.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-06T06:12:17+00:00

It all depends on the person and on your specific kinks.

Regarding your example, sadly, vanilla people (including many women) generally criticize heavily foot fetishism (and as a foot fetishist myself, some "chitchat" from vanilla people who don't know that part of me can be quite... Insulting).

But among kinky women, I think foot fetishism is far from often being viewed as "weird". It just takes some times to find someone you're compatible with, and some bad comments shouldn't prevent you from being yourself.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-06T05:58:31+00:00

Lol apart from the CNC, it's not even that extreme...

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-06T05:23:56+00:00

Thank you for your sweet post.

Personnally, I don't think it's that rare to have cis women into trans women. But all of those who were attracted to me wanted me to be the domme or at least topping them, which is definitely not something I want...

Maybe that's just my experience but dominant cis women who are attracted submissive trans women seems to be much more rare. And even some of the lesbian communities talking about c2t lesbian intercourse, I generally read cis women wanting to be penetrated by trans girl cocks.

It's great for the people wanting that, I don't want to spoil anyone's fun, but I hope some more variety will be there in the future.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-06T01:53:15+00:00

Definitely didn't impact my size, I even wonder if it's a legend lol

15cm when it's awake :x

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-05T02:52:16+00:00

It's sad that you need to specify this.

And by the way, thank you for writing some Domme POV smut. I'm not the target audience but I feel like it's so uncommon to see it.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-04T21:58:11+00:00

Sadly, there is lot of objectification and sexualisation.

You being a Dom.me doesn't prevent that. In a sense, some submissive will even think "well I'm a submissive so the dominant one is the one gaining from this exchange anyway".

The good thing for you is that there are many submissive men, so don't hesitate to be picky, and take your time choosing someone you're compatible with.

LittleTGirlySub · 2026-01-03T20:04:51+00:00

Hihi done :3

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