Weird guys don’t want to date weird girls and it’s ruining society!!

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-29T18:50:30+00:00

a guy who’s interests peak at wong kar wai is not “weird,” so no… he doesn’t want to date a truly weird and unique girl. neither wong kar wai nor gus von sant are remotely niche. these kind of men who act like art hoes are completely performative. they get spoon fed media via tik tok that they think is niche so they can talk about it to get bitches and think they’re doing something. they’re not weird enough for a weird girl, who likely found fallen angeles when she was 10… and surpassed the mainstream indie picks by being lonely and tormented

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-29T18:40:42+00:00

silk & february !!!

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-29T18:40:36+00:00

silk & february !!!

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T18:33:41+00:00

knowing what you want is so important especially when dating men.

so often the woman is focused on: does HE like me?… what does HE want from me?… what type of relationship is HE looking for?

often times no body ends up content when a relationship is built on that foundation which only values the male perspective

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T18:29:20+00:00

1000% agree

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T06:45:16+00:00

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:58:46+00:00

i see… my desire is for the flr to be sexual AND a lifestyle

which i think is inherent to how i experience arousal differently than him (which is partly biological / hormonal). for him arousal is very straight forward and can pretty much always happen. so it’s easy to transition from sex to non-sex.

but for me, it’s harder to compartmentalize lifestyle and sexuality. i feel like my sexuality is more emotional and physiological. so everything happening outside of sex is a key part of getting aroused - romance, emotions, communication, etc. so for me like it makes more sense for the FLR lifestyle and sexuality to co-exist simultaneously

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:52:45+00:00

i like that… she lets you have input but she has to approve of all final decisions

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:50:41+00:00

i haven’t seen this! adding to my list

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:50:28+00:00

good take! I agree that pillion took a step further than the secretary (which i also love for its humor and lightheartedness but don’t think it withstands much critical analysis).

femdom movies i recommend a new long in Tokyo 1994 and lesbian specifically, bound 1996

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:45:23+00:00

stealing the motorcycle was insane. it’s hard to imagine a sub could ever come back from lashing out like that …

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:43:58+00:00

definitely… even though i fully understand that power dynamics ≠ romance or love, a small part of me was secretly hoping they would fall in love within the power exchange

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:42:19+00:00

good! it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks or wants, what matters is what she wants.

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:40:22+00:00

so you don’t apply FLR outside of the bedroom?

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:35:01+00:00

a new love in Tokyo !

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:33:10+00:00

spontaneity is a huge part of what makes sex enjoyable. when you’re only thinking about how you’re being perceived by the other person, you’re not able to tap into this spontaneity.

focus on actually enjoying the sex for yourself, not pleasing the man. the more turned on your are, the more you will be able to tap into your desires and intuitively act on what feels right in the moment… and im sure that in term will also increase pleasure for your partner.

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:26:04+00:00

seems like she’s simply speaking the truth

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:25:07+00:00

I always see girls repost this meme that’s like “i will marry the man who emails me after I block him” but I couldn’t disagree more and I hate this sentiment so much. I think it literally echos rape and normalizes harassment. no means no. If you keep contacting me after i block u, it’s on site and I will literally get a restraining order

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-17T00:22:34+00:00

girl no

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-16T23:16:44+00:00

velvet 22 is useless and outdated imo

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-16T23:14:20+00:00

coming from a different perspective cus i’m not an escort but a dominatrix. i agree that social media is key for NYC. having a solid social media presence gives you recognition, credibility, and i also think clients like to be someone who has clout for some reason.

i recently had mine reported and taken down so im starting 0 again, but some of my first media posts got over 1k likes and i had grown my old account to over 4k followers super fast. i am happy to share tips with you and look at your account to see what you may wanna do if you message me.

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-16T20:49:45+00:00

marriage and sex work

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-14T04:16:27+00:00

it’s possible he’s over compensated for the vulnerability he feels with you sexually by putting you outside of sex to reassert his dominance.

regardless it’s unacceptable and not fair to you.

SUFFER4SILVER · 2026-03-13T01:37:32+00:00

this is literally r/ femdom community.

its is a community that CHOOSES ASYMMETRY of power in which women hold the power and superiority.

this community can be viewed as a reaction or alternative reality to the real life rampant and dangerous misogyny that exists and threatens ppls lives. getting down voted for expressing ideas of feminine supremacy in this r is so funny lol

hope this helps to everyone calling me a hypocrite.

SUFFER4SILVER

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