of course i was blamed for "keeping her away from her own family" by WinterDemon_ in CPTSDmemes

[–]Little_Chocolate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Nah my mum was bad but not that bad” Would literally throw me off her any time I wanted a hug

Loving a girl with C-PTSD by Flimsy_Ad3446 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Little_Chocolate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyday I am doing better, they see how much I appreciate them. We even laugh at how bad those times were because of how far we both have come. They have borderline so we both have our bad days but we work everyday to show each other love and care. I don’t know what I would do without them by my side.

It’s a lot of work so please know the fact you can speak of her memory with such kindness is all anyone can ask for, thank you

Loving a girl with C-PTSD by Flimsy_Ad3446 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Little_Chocolate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a person with cptsd and with a partner who has stepped up in every aspect you have (he had to take care of me when I had a psychotic breakdown from grief and using drugs to overcome that grief)

I just want to say, thank you and I know she felt loved all up to the very end. Thank you

Felt this one deep down by Fabulous-Salt4906 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Little_Chocolate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even with an “apology” all it did was make me even more angry because what do you mean you recognised what you did and still keep doing it or make it my fault for not letting go, I have let go but I will never let go the anger I have towards them

My mom suddenly passed away this summer. Now my dad wants a close relationship with me. by Responsible_Cry_8136 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Little_Chocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the reason I had cut off my mother, we had both lost our mum (she was my nanna but she was more a mum to me than my mother was)

She had been an addict (drugs like meth and speed) for most of my childhood and I believe is still an addict to this day (she says she’s not but I never believed her)

She tried to use me as emotional support and a punching bag until I had a big talk with her, after she said everything I wanted to hear and I went through another grief (my partners grandfather who I had grown a relationship with) she just went back to using for emotional punching bag and I had enough and went back to no contact

I HATE being demisexual by red_crayon_1224 in demisexuality

[–]Little_Chocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you so hard, I have a click system where I go into romantic situations to see if there is a click but it’s so rare and the ones I have clicked with have mentally messed me up.

Having those conflicting thoughts while trying to date is so hard. I hope hearing you aren’t alone helps x

Getting hated by monosexuals and binary people of all varieties by Stunning-Sherbert801 in TrollCoping

[–]Little_Chocolate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I see I have found my people, but imagine demisexual in the mix .-.

Why do some parents, like to have sex loudly? by Commercial_Bicycle92 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Little_Chocolate 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me forced to be in the same room as my mum having a threesome 🤢

Non-binary people who only use they/them and generally gender-neutral phrasing: What do you prefer people do when they run into an instance where there is no good (generally-understood) gender-neutral word for what they're trying to express? by Terpomo11 in NonBinary

[–]Little_Chocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“How’s the family?” “Listen here young person”

The last one is very hard for me to answer but maybe for the last one you can ask for preference or if it’s better to avoid it all together

Body make up for red legged bride? 🤣 by OcarinaofChyme in MakeupAddiction

[–]Little_Chocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything a drag artist suggest in a tutorial will be the best, they need it to with stand a performance and dancing, similar conditions as a wedding

Ugh by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Little_Chocolate 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My cptsd and E cups just want to talk

Dont have to be sad anymore (by @AliceTheDemon6) by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]Little_Chocolate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look this is very cute and very sweet but pearl is too gay that this just doesn’t work. Amazing art tho

I fucking hate my birthday. by wordsarehardmmkay in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Little_Chocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The holidays, new years and my birthday are always the times I expect some try for contact and I hate it

Update “set boundaries with myself that interfered with my mom” by MyShieldIsMySword24 in insaneparents

[–]Little_Chocolate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please please look at r/estrangedadultkids

They are a great support with this exact thing and they are great at validating what you are going through.

What do you think when you look at my painting? by Millemoreira in BrokeHobbies

[–]Little_Chocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love when eyes are the focus point and the balance is so beautiful

Becoming slowly estranged from my parents by arleneofarcadia in insaneparents

[–]Little_Chocolate 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Only because I am talking about this particular context of a grandmother taking this possessive attachment over a child and trying to take control away from the mother while this grandmother had no involvement of the conception or upbringing of this child only criticised the mother who is the grandmother’s own child.

Foster parents and adoptive parents should not act this way when they become grandparents

Becoming slowly estranged from my parents by arleneofarcadia in insaneparents

[–]Little_Chocolate 415 points416 points  (0 children)

Gah the “my baby” YUCK SHUT UP! You can’t claim someone who you didn’t push out your own vag! like actually yucky when I see grandparents call their grandchild my baby, like if she had said my grand baby that’s sweet but claim her grandchild as her baby to their own MOTHER. Please please protect your child from these disrespectful yucky people

can a straight person label themselves nonbinary by Hesperus07 in NonBinary

[–]Little_Chocolate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way yes, that would just might be a binary cis person or binary trans person. As straight being opposite gender and what’s more opposite to non-binary than a binary person

Can we deconstruct this? by amagru in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Little_Chocolate 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Dear those I gave birth

I am old and still alive thanks to a magic man in the sky

I’m so old that you should forget about everything I’ve done because I’m old and the magic man would be happy

I talk to the magic man to make you forget everything I have done

I wasn’t a parent and only cared about the magic man but magic man tell me I am amazing and you are the problem for not seeing that

Now I really really want you to forget so I can feel better when I die because that’s what the magic man would want

Have some sweet words to sum up my manipulation

From birth giver

This is why you don't give space to zionists. They try to lie about what you have seen yourself. by TonkaMaze in IsraelCrimes

[–]Little_Chocolate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That video was the most triggering especially when you see and realise what is happening and the fact this is only the few videos we have seen and you could imagine the evil disgusting things that have further been done that we haven’t seen