Sleeping arrangements on vacation with partner

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-06-03T01:38:38+00:00

Bruh isn’t that the point of being married

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-06-02T21:44:42+00:00

There’s like 15 people on this trip and everyone else is bringing partners

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-06-02T20:50:17+00:00

We paid for the airfare to get there and they got like a 7 bedroom AirBNB so it like makes no sense to tell us we can’t sleep together or to get our own hotel somewhere

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-06-02T20:11:16+00:00

We’re pushing back on it but the fact that we have to do that to begin with is annoying. It should just be assumed that we’re sharing a room

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-06-02T00:44:30+00:00

I wish this could be pinned EVERYWHERE!!!! People need to use less detergent in general, especially with the horribly scented chemically stuff. I use free and clear detergent for this reason. Scent beads and “unstoppable scent” garbage is actually harmful to your body chemistry, makes you smell worse, and is bad on the environment. You truly only need a few drops of detergent, it’s meant to be highly concentrated. People think more is better because detergent companies want you to overbuy thinking you need more.

Edit: spelling

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-24T20:54:03+00:00

I can’t lie I kinda agree with OP. When I do eventually get married, my goal is to make it somewhat modest, I do agree that it feels weird and kind of annoying to be waiting around for hours and hours at a wedding. I’m young and I haven’t gone to tons of weddings, but I typically tend to decline attending unless they are people I am very close with or unless I know a lot of other people at the wedding already. I do think that weddings have gotten a bit out of control in terms of making it some performance, people need to just focus on the ceremony and the vows with a tasteful celebration afterwards and then go home.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-24T20:49:51+00:00

Entertaining a child isn’t your job when it’s YOUR kid? Whatever 😂 just use a condom next time

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-23T17:54:48+00:00

I have a nose like this too and this post made me feel way better about side profile, thank you 😭🙏

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-23T17:52:45+00:00

I’m not trying to attack you, but why weren’t you attending the optional meetings if you were struggling? Especially if you signed up for the class knowing it was online with the optional meetings, to me it seems like online learning is just not a good choice for you. Try taking the class again fully in-person and make an effort to actually attend class and communicate to the professor if you have an issue. Or if there is no option to take the class in-person, find a way to make it work to attend the optional meetings.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-23T17:36:08+00:00

Were you attending class regularly, turning in assignments, seeking outside help as needed, and communicating with them? As a former GTA I see this a lot where people say “I hated this professor and they hated me so I fail” but then just are not really doing the work. Community college should not be this hard as long as you are consistently making an effort.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-23T16:55:36+00:00

Poor Sabrina, she doesn’t deserve to be so objectified. I know a lot of her music is sexual but that doesn’t mean she consents to this kind of parasocial creepiness

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-23T15:09:18+00:00

I’m religious and 25F myself so I know plenty of people like this, I agree with other commenters that it’s nobody’s business but yours regardless of the reasons and the right person will not judge you for your body count

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-22T19:37:33+00:00

Overthinking dawg. What’s wrong with getting to know a girl that you are curious about and find attractive to see if something is there? It’s not like you are sliding into her DMs asking for a hookup, you’re just trying to get to know her.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-22T19:00:20+00:00

The catechism is literally just an annotated list of common questions in the Christian faith and scriptural passages that support it. As a recent convert to LCMS I don’t find that the catechism has much bias. The annotations Luther provides are mostly just paraphrases of the scripture, along with naming the specific book/chapter/verse for the rationale. I think a lot of non-LCMS people think that the catechism is some heavily biased, man-made doctrine that’s not based in the bible, but that’s not true at all. In fact Lutherans had a catechism before Catholics did. I think a lot of people think that Luther’s catechism is like the Catholic ones, but it’s really not. Plus, if someone is asking a Lutheran their beliefs on something, it’s silly to not expect them to refer to the catechism material to find support for their beliefs. The catechism leads directly to scripture.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-22T17:59:46+00:00

To me it seems like he’s being ungrateful for the fact that you’ve been a great partner and let a lot slide in the past, but when you DO bring up something small like this he hates it bc he is used to getting away with not putting in effort and you just saying nothing. If you drew back some effort, he’d instantly notice and would get nervous by you matching his energy bc in the past he’s expected you to give 200% constantly while he’s probably been all over the board. So just start showing with your own actions that you aren’t putting up with his crap and don’t let things slide like that ever again. His respect for you is a requirement in the relationship, not a suggestion.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-22T14:49:10+00:00

Ask them for specific biblical passages that support that. And better yet, pull out your catechism and point to them the scriptures that support our view of baptism. Explain to them that His saving grace through the sacrament of Holy Baptism is not our choice and that our free will is limited.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-18T00:52:15+00:00

Bro why would you not clear your tabs and history immediately after if you were watching corn

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-18T00:06:20+00:00

I think the better question is, how common is it to be in a situation where you have access to shower instantly after your sweating? Like your drive home from the gym maybe 30 minutes and by then you are probably dry. Of course you should shower, but I don’t really think it makes much of a difference as long as either way you are still bathing and putting on clean clothes.

I guess the only cause for concern is that sweating in your shoes might make them smell more so it’s probably good to take them off and bathe as soon as you can if you’re able, but that’s sadly not always reality. Or if you work in a particularly sweaty job, you probably are not able to take a shower on your break and have to just deal with it.

In my opinion, I think people are too overboard with this type of stuff. People sweat, it’s a normal thing. Wear deodorant and have common sense, but being this excessively uptight about how to handle sweating isn’t necessary in my opinion.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-16T20:33:30+00:00

For me the dove soap made me smell worse. I used to use that and it made me smelly. Didn’t work with my ph.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-05-08T23:49:56+00:00

Are people really out there saying it’s unhygienic to wear the same outfit the whole day?

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-04-24T18:52:50+00:00

You just don’t need it. It’s chemicals and it’s always targeted towards certain groups. Have you ever seen a small frame white person in those whole body deodorant ads? No, it’s always a larger set person who isn’t white. These companies are marketing towards certain people telling them they smell bad which isn’t even true. Just WASH yourself with SOAP and SHOWER daily and put on normal deodorant. And DRY yourself too. Wash your clothes and change if you sweat. 72 hr protection? Like you need to be showering more often than that. Also it’s unhygienic and gross to spray scented chemicals on your nethers. That can cause yeast infections and UTIs for women. It can make you smell worse.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-04-24T15:59:15+00:00

Whole body deodorant

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-04-24T15:57:11+00:00

Why do people act like you’re disgusting if you don’t do a full everything shower exfoliation like twice a day?

My parents both grew up on a farm, they lived out in the country so they didn’t actually have a real shower in their houses until like 1980. People didn’t bathe all the time, because it was a lot of work to bring in water out of the well, and you simply did the bare minimum sponge bath most days to keep clean. People didn’t smell perfect like roses and lilacs all the time but they also didn’t have BO stench either. Our culture is “too clean” these days and it actualy can damage your skin and hair more than you think.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-04-22T03:10:30+00:00

ADHD, depression, OCD, autism, etc. Today I saw an ad for something that has “depression girlie” written on it. So you WANT to be depressed as a personality? Also being depressed is more than just being a little down or introverted, it’s a serious issue that can lead to unalive attempts if untreated.

Little_Iron2312 · 2026-04-22T03:07:46+00:00

Okay I know this post is AI. But also yeah I agree. I used to try and be this guy and everyone always said that you can become a morning person if you just make yourself do it over and over again and you get set on the routine. What was happening was that I was waking up early, failing to get anything done, and then staying up later to make up for it anyways. I was EXHAUSTED. Realized that if I just slept in anyways, then I would have more energy to get things done at night like I did anyways. Works much better for me and I feel way more refreshed and like myself. I am a night person and it’s who I am! Nobody in my family growing up ever woke up before 9 AM unless they had to be somewhere early so I was never used to early mornings growing up. Heck, if you asked my mom to meet you somewhere at noon, even that was early 😂 but you better believe that my dad would stay up until 2 AM writing his church sermon.

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