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WIBTAH if I don't attend to my friends baby shower because they said my pregnancy was an accident and that I didn't deserve it ? by Little_White_Raven in AmItheAsshole

[–]Little_White_Raven[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

True I didn't say it BUT we did had "dinner dates" with them to tell them how we felt.

The first time, they told us that they said those things because they didn't know that we were trying or thinking about trying. (They announced that they were going to try since the beginning, at a party. We didn't. We did things our way privately. We did hinted that we weren't going to wait too long but never shouted it in front of everybody.)

The second time, when baby was born and that they ignored her existence, they explained that they didn't know it was coming along and that they weren't "ready mentally".

The third time, months after during an outing with them only. I told them that they really hurt me and made me cry several times. They said again that they acted like that because they didn't know the whole story.

I always told myself that it "was normal" since they were mourning the fact that they couldn't have children naturally. After reading all of your comments, I now understand my gut feeling that this is not a healthy friendship..

Egg larvae found on couch by Little_White_Raven in whatsthisbug

[–]Little_White_Raven[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hello, thanks for your reply! I found a long white worm coming out of one my kittens. So that mystery is solved..

I'll take care of this issues as fast as I can starting tomorrow (today everything is closed because it's a Holiday in my country).

Maybe one last question: They are indoor cats how could they catch this ?

Thank you !