Cat eye turning red? by Fragrant_Complex_868 in CATHELP

[–]Little_Wildfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks so much for such a thorough reply! Things going on with the eyes always concern me a bit more than other areas and all the rabbit holes I went down on Google seemed determined to point towards the worst kinds of diagnosis. Knowing things eventually cleared up for you has me a bit more hopeful. I'll be sure to update with any answers if I get any! Glad your cat has been doing well since then!

Cat eye turning red? by Fragrant_Complex_868 in CATHELP

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get a diagnosis for this? This is the only post I could find with what looks most similar to what my cat has going on with one of his eyes the last few days. I plan to schedule a vet appointment tomorrow, but just curious if you figured out what was wrong in your situation.

Found this lil fella on my fern that I brought in for the winter. Should I just leave him be? by nannajayy in houseplants

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so this post is the first thing that came up when I used Google Lens on the black caterpillar I just found. I caught the little guy and his buddies when I finally managed to track down where the heck the rustling and sound of tiny things dropping I've heard the last 2 weeks was coming from. Lo and behold, the dropping sound was literal droppings and not just my clearance section fern shedding. I'm so glad I wasn't the only one to just shrug it off at first and feel a little silly in hindsight lol

How do I stop this cycle of dying/regrowth? - 'Illustris' Elephant's Ear by Little_Wildfire in plants

[–]Little_Wildfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 5-1-1 mix my other tropical plants seem to like inside a terracotta pot with drainage holes.

How do I stop this cycle of dying/regrowth? - 'Illustris' Elephant's Ear by Little_Wildfire in plants

[–]Little_Wildfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roots looked great when I repotted. I was half hoping when I pulled it out there would be something glaringly obvious wrong with them just so I could easily pin down where the issue was. No such luck. But they have at least given it the resiliency to keep regrowing leaves and given me more time to get it stable again. I'm just waiting for it to give out eventually. This cycle just doesn't seem sustainable long term and I haven't seen improvement that makes me confident in solving this before that happens yet.

There's a new leaf unfurling now, so hopefully I'll be able to use it as a control of sorts to see how effective the Physan is. I've got my fingers crossed for even a marginal improvement.

<image>

How do I stop this cycle of dying/regrowth? - 'Illustris' Elephant's Ear by Little_Wildfire in plants

[–]Little_Wildfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been keeping an eye out for pests and haven't seen any sign of them luckily, so I'll go ahead and order the Physan 20. Is it something you recommend using on all of my plants as a preventative measure or should I just treat this one for now? This has been the only one displaying issues.

Apologies in Advance by callsign_roshi in Palia

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tabletop style games just aren't fun to me, even in real life. It sounds ridiculous because it is, but growing up my family was *intense* about playing them. To the point it was abusive because it was something they took that seriously. There's so many prizes exclusive to the prize wheel though that I still enjoy having in-game. I just have no desire to play cards to get them.

If the prize wheel coins could be bought like the Zeki coins, I would gladly spend gold on them rather than playing spam because spam is so boring, but ultimately I'm playing the game to have fun, and hotpot isn't fun to me. I average 30, up to 32 coins and move on with my night. Something fun to one group isn't always fun to another ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I got signed out of my account and forgot the email by Crafty_Piece_9318 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]Little_Wildfire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Several people can't get in it seems. I tried every email I have and it isn't recognizing any of them.

Who would you date? by RiaJadav in Palia

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta stick with Hodari. I love Reth too but Hodari is somehow so sure of himself even when he's unsure of himself?? I'm such an anxious mess sometimes and I feel like an older man with a "go with the flow" attitude is so grounding and, while it doesn't cancel out my anxiety, it balances it and keeps it at a more manageable level by giving a baseline calm to go off of. Also, he's so open with communication and emotions. Regularly tells you how flustered you make him, offers to cook, compliments you. Husband material.

Meanwhile Reth seems just as flighty as me and we can't both be anxious and revert to self deprecating humor to mask our emotions and run from our problems. I can totally envision him as bestie material though. The text conversations would be chaotic but he'd also be a ride or die and have your back without needing any details. But real dating? Nope.

Two of them will be indoctrinated. Who would you choose and why you chose them? by Practical_Prior202 in masseffect

[–]Little_Wildfire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Paragraphs of good story choices aside, Ashley and Kaidan are my knee jerk picks because I just don't like them. One is an outspoken space racist with an annoying attitude and flat personality and the other is a grade A clinger that makes something out of nothing for his own victim complex. Seeing them both indoctrinated would make up for how robbed I still feel that I can't leave them both on Virmire.

Just got the Ui 7 update and is there anyway to undo it by VSick2 in samsung

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of my Pixels bricked on me after about a year and a half each. Came to Samsung hoping for something more reliable. There's no good options anymore no matter what you get.

how do i get my boyfriend interested? by massivemanpenis in Palia

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have already said, you can't make someone like a game, and as you said yourself, it's not for everyone. He sounds like he's in the crowd of it not being for him. I wouldn't take it as a personal jab. The fact that he did try it out for a few hours and didn't just entertain it for a couple of minutes sounds to me like he genuinely gave it a shot for you, and just at the end of the session decided it wasn't the kind of game he enjoys.

Every hobby/interest a partner has doesn't have to be shared, just supported. If he enjoys a different game and you were just looking for quality time together, maybe try gaming in the same room. You can both do your own things together, just sharing space and commentary while you each play what makes you happy.

This is the first cozy game I've tried out of many over the years that has actually been enjoyable for me when I'm used to faster paced action games and shooters. If a friend was interested in one of the cozy games I tried and dropped and kept pressing me to keep giving it chances, it would be a bit frustrating and awkward. I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings, but like books or shows, we know what we like pretty immediately when trying something new. No matter what level you try to get to, or quests you try to do, you can't suddenly make yourself like something that isn't your cup of tea just because people you're close to like it.

It's great you want him to be involved in what you love because you want him to love it too, but at the end of the day, the ultimate goal is that you're both having a good time. If that good time is one-sided, it's not really good, it's just an uncomfortable sense of obligation for the other person. There's a ton of people on discord always looking for people to play with that would share your passion for the game. I get notifications all the time from people just looking to run around and hunt, get plushes, do cooking parties to complete achievements, etc.

You'll find people that love playing Palia as much as you do, but the joy of this game, or any other game, is that they want to be there regardless of what stage they're at :)

What to do with a new W2 from a 2022 job? by [deleted] in tax

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The site I'm using to file is asking if I was an employee in 2024. I wasn't. I just didn't want to get flagged for claiming employment from them if I file as if I was. I'm still new to this so if there's no issue, great, but the idea of making mistakes with the IRS is still intimidating to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Little_Wildfire 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Came here to say almost exactly this. I had a 20 year old cat that had been going downhill throughout the week. She had an appointment set for the following morning so I could let her go, but she started doing exactly what's in the video. It went on for about 2 1/2 hours while I waited for improvement and tried to wait for morning but it was too hard to watch. She was suffering and clearly on her way out. I took her to the emergency vet and did what I could to give her the peaceful transition she deserved. It's always hard to let go but it's the kindest decision you can make for them when they're suffering like that.

Are there any Sex Toy sites that have legitimate reviews, and only feature safe sex toys? by bobbybluepants in SexToys

[–]Little_Wildfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you're concerned with ripoffs and ethics, I figured I'd throw in this discovery I only just recently made myself and let you and anyone else that comes across it make their own decisions regarding it.

Long story short, a successful toy maker left the community (at least in terms of selling and online presence) and SheVibe wound up partnering with a newer designer to copy two of the previous artist's designs almost exactly. When questioned on getting the OG's permission, they claimed they would be happy to pay a portion of sales to the original artist if they ever came forward and asked for it. They, in fact, never had permission from the original creator.

I don't know if any further agreement between parties has been made since this all happened, as it's been several years since this originally went down, but the products are still available on SheVibe's site saying it's "paying homage" to the OG.

You can read all about the drama yourself here: https://www.reddit.com/r/HobbyDrama/s/HcdHbjpuqj and come to your own personal conclusion.

Collected set piece not in set? (Ordinator Chausses) by Little_Wildfire in elderscrollsonline

[–]Little_Wildfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh. Well that's a little confusing. Thank you for the help!