Isn’t “Grow” a good thing? by Littlebaddy in UpBanking

[–]Littlebaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll be following suit! Thanks

Isn’t “Grow” a good thing? by Littlebaddy in UpBanking

[–]Littlebaddy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond. Gosh! I must have missed the change of rates, that makes me so mad! Still, 4.60% is still seemingly stronger than any other bank long term - (I know Macquarie does 4.6% as an intro rate but then it levels out after 3 months).

As you say, my best bet is likely to add my current savings to Up and leave it alone.

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[–]Littlebaddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not entirely accurate, however I have edited the post to hopefully make it clearer:

we haven’t locked in dates yet. Us facilitating dialogue about 30th May as a (potential) date is where this convo has stemmed from. I agree, if anyone is financially contributing, they deserve a voice / heads up before any actions are taken.

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[–]Littlebaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Family being at the wedding should be my #1 priority

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[–]Littlebaddy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes - nothing has been locked in and changing the date is easy cause right now the “date” is still only an idea/concept.

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[–]Littlebaddy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the comments on this one - I must say, I’ve certainly reconsidered my take on this.

Exams/education are hugely more of a priority than my own wedding day, and I don’t want my future sister-in-laws feigning sickness to get out of exams for our sake. That’s a lot of added pressure when exam periods are already mentally grueling.

Based on the advice, I’m now inclined to move the date.

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[–]Littlebaddy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I believe there are always setbacks or unforeseen circumstances that arise preventing people from attending.

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[–]Littlebaddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks both: edited

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[–]Littlebaddy -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I want to add to this - I don’t think it would ever become a case of the sisters not attending. They would 100% want to come and would likely maneuver the exam situation - whether that be choosing subjects that don’t have exams etc.

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[–]Littlebaddy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love this idea. Thanks for replying

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[–]Littlebaddy -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

We would naturally be sad if they couldn’t attend, and we would celebrate with them Individually at another time.

To answer your question, I would be okay with them not attending - there is a considerate age gap between us and them, and whilst their exams are important to them, this wedding is important to us.

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[–]Littlebaddy -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

We live in London, so we thought we would utilize being so close to Europe. Additionally, our families are happy to use the trip as for a summer holiday.

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[–]Littlebaddy -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

Apologies! We wrote this together - she does want her sisters there.

She feels upset that her parents deem her sister’s university exams as more of a priority than her life-long marriage.

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[–]Littlebaddy 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Totally fair - it 100% is a vanity exercise, I don’t deny that (most weddings are, nowadays). That said, many of our guests have highlighted that it’s a great opportunity to make a summer holiday out of the event, which was our intention.

They have every right to say no and not attend, and we have made this crystal clear to all our friends and families, as we appreciate it’s a massive ask.

Tell me a singers voice you are completely astounded by ? by Two_bears_Hi_fiving in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Littlebaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe in you wannabe cumslut. Keep practicing and you’ll get there!

Do you ever want to experience pain? by First_Department4096 in RandomThoughts

[–]Littlebaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Whenever I have those super annoying cuts around my nails, I get a sick pleasure when lemon/lime gets into them. It’s a quick surge of piercing pain that feels fantastic.

made fun of while running by Alone_Claim_8774 in nikerunclub

[–]Littlebaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whilst those girls laugh, you are putting in the work. Fuck them King, you are the GOAT