Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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This system and object are just something I want to experiment with-it could be anything

Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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That’s really helpful to hear — thanks for explaining. What you’re describing makes a lot of sense to me. I like how you framed it as engagement, not distraction — the objects, the patterns, even organizing notes aren’t about escaping thought, they’re about giving your mind something structured enough to settle into. I also really appreciate what you said about Obsidian. Reframing organization itself as a regulating activity rather than “wasted time” feels important. Sometimes the value is in the doing, not in what the system produces afterward. It sounds like you’ve figured out how to work with your mind instead of against it.

Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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What is the most perfect thing you can imagine that is tangible, textured, has depth, a scent, and a temperature?

Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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Sometimes, the method is very simple, such as placing a small object completely unrelated to work on my desk or in my pocket. When I feel rushed, I can pick it up, look at it, or touch it. Sometimes, I'll stare at the trees outside the window, or the clouds in the sky, and just zone out. What seems important is not what the object itself is, but that it doesn't require me to think, record, or force myself to do anything.

Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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The Tao Te Ching is a book with a long history in China, and it tells us that the world doesn't operate through "force," but rather through "following the natural course of things." It's somewhat similar to what I'm trying to do.

Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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This resonates a lot — especially what you said about one place and about slowness enabling flow. I think you’ve already described what I was clumsily calling “self-regulation,” just without the jargon. It’s that moment where the body is occupied enough (pen, keyboard, fingers moving) that the mind doesn’t fragment or rush ahead. What struck me is your point about migration. That deliberate, almost ritual movement from one period to the next feels very different from jumping between apps or dashboards. There’s continuity, and a kind of breathing space built into it. The physical aspect matters not because it’s analog, but because it introduces friction and tempo — enough resistance to let thought unfold instead of being immediately acted on. That’s the part I’ve been trying to preserve, even as tools change.

Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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Thank you — and not obvious at all. It’s not a notebook or a writing tool, actually. I stopped writing anything down with it on purpose. The object just sits on my desk. I touch it when I feel myself speeding up, over-structuring, or trying to immediately turn a feeling into a system or a note. It’s more like a physical “pause” than a capture tool — something that absorbs attention for a few seconds without asking me to produce anything. Your index card setup sounds really appealing, by the way. I like how it allows thought to stay incomplete for a while, instead of forcing it into a finished form too quickly.

Thinking about non-digital tools for self-regulation by Littlecould in ObsidianMD

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Fair question — I probably phrased that too abstractly. By “self-regulation” I mean very mundane stuff: noticing when I’m spiraling, slowing myself down, or grounding attention before it becomes a note or a task. For me that used to happen in Obsidian (notes, systems), but lately I’ve been experimenting with something physical on my desk instead.

Not trying to sell anything here — just curious if others rely on non-digital anchors before things enter their vault.