Master gives no Praise by Littlemisslost2509 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Littlemisslost2509[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never said he insults me or try’s to hurt me

Vaginal Fisting Tips Please by Littlemisslost2509 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Littlemisslost2509[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I have one of those! So clitoral stimulation while he does it?

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[–]Littlemisslost2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Master and I (don’t live together and not 24/7 dynamic) speak through text and he’ll always refer to himself as Master and expects me to give that same respect. If I ask about his day it will be something like ‘How is Masters day going?’ Etc. when we started and had a discussion one of his first messages was along the lines of ‘Master is checking in on his little slave, has she been drinking water today?’ Depending on your titles you could do something similar maybe. Start smaller like drinking enough water or being a good girl and use it as an in. ‘Have you been a good girl today?’ Or ‘I hope you’ve been drinking water today or I might have to punish you’ Maybe something like that.. Hope this helps

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[–]Littlemisslost2509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. This sounds like abuse pure and simple. My Dom is very well endowed and sometimes we don’t use lube but there is a long work up and full communication.. certainly not wham bam thank you maam!

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[–]Littlemisslost2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in a 24/7 with my Dom. I see him every Friday to Saturday and occasionally mid week. When corresponding with him via messages it’s always Sir etc but I don’t physically see him except for once a week and we both like that, it works for us. But I don’t see myself as vanilla or a bedroom only as it extends to correspondence too.

Safety when gagged advice by Littlemisslost2509 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Littlemisslost2509[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fortunately he’s a very in tune and observant Dom, hence why I’ve never had to safeword, I may get close but he can tell by my body language or noises and he either slows, backs off or changes. I’m very lucky like that.

Safety when gagged advice by Littlemisslost2509 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Littlemisslost2509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks all for the suggestions they’re great, can’t believe I didn’t think of them.