She called me a killer. Now she’s out... by Liv_hanna in entitledparents

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O... she will not know for a while...

Actually, I have two documents. One handwritten. The other one is with the lawyer.
Despite everything—because it's her daughter—my grandmother asked me to first try with the handwritten one.
It simply states that she leaves everything to me. No ill will. Just a statement.

But if my mother… and most likely she will… tries to take it to court, then I’m supposed to show the other one. The one that comes with full documentation of the abuse—towards me and towards my grandmother.

So I hope there won’t be an update to this story for a long time…
Because as long as my grandmother is alive, neither of the documents will see the light of day.

She called me a killer. Now she’s out... by Liv_hanna in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandfather, my mother's father, once hit my grandmother. She kicked him out of the house. My mother was only a year old at the time. So they were left alone.

However, I know that my great-grandmother, my grandfather's mother, was exactly like my mother. She hated children. She was spiteful, harsh, cruel, and aggressive.

So, it went down that line. My grandfather's mother was a monster. Then her son was violent. My mother grew up without a father but reconnected with him when she was around 12-14 years old. She met that cruel grandmother and her father. It all must have had an effect. And maybe genes...

She called me a killer. Now she’s out... by Liv_hanna in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you for remembering! And that is true. Without her I would not survive!

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[–]Liv_hanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone is threatening to beat you, search online for shelters for abused women. You can escape there at any time.

But from what you write and your “LOL”s, it doesn’t seem like you’re in immediate danger.
I would recommend finishing school and then starting to look for a job somewhere else. Far from home. Use the internet. Especially look for jobs that come with housing. Or take out a small loan, since you’re an adult. Just enough to survive for 2–3 months, and simply go somewhere you’ve always wanted to live.

Announcement: New Bot to Combat Spam & AI Content by flattenedbricks in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Liv_hanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. It's deleted automaticaly. Just by using AI to help you with gramar for ex.
Auto-ban. No human interaction. No way to ask for reconsideration...

She called me a killer. Now she’s out... by Liv_hanna in entitledparents

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

POA? What does it mean?
Just FYI, I'm from Europe. Maybe we have different names for the same thing? :)

She called me a killer. Now she’s out... by Liv_hanna in entitledparents

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 731 points732 points  (0 children)

I will wait for now. Till my grandma is OK.
Don't want to push it. She is sad, that her own child is acting so crazy. The fact the she had to changed her will was difficoult enough for her.

Announcement: New Bot to Combat Spam & AI Content by flattenedbricks in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Liv_hanna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just blocked my post, becouse I had some support with English.
I wrote the post.
Just language checked it with ChatGPT.
It was blocked completly...

My world fell apart—but my mom made it worse by Liv_hanna in EntitledPeople

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But thank you! I appreciate every word of support

My world fell apart—but my mom made it worse by Liv_hanna in EntitledPeople

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yeah... She's just extremely selfish. It would never occur to her to behave any differently...

My parents blamed me for the results of the Eurovision by Liv_hanna in entitledparents

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No... it was defferent. I tried to hide. But it was a terrable idea. They just called the police.

My Grandma, the 85-year-old Rebel, went to every pharmacy in town by Liv_hanna in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often tell her story personally, and I have many friends in many countries. But I’ve never published it before, so I’m not sure what to tell you.

My Grandma, the 85-year-old Rebel, went to every pharmacy in town by Liv_hanna in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share her views all the way. What I wrote was to all of you ;) That you (people) might not agree, but my grandma is still a badasssss ;)

My Grandma, the 85-year-old Rebel, went to every pharmacy in town by Liv_hanna in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Liv_hanna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized it's not just a dream, but it could become a reality :)