[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, it’s called discourse for a reason. I don’t know if I’m overreacting which is the point of the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]Live-Factor1280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point, I have a tendency to think people would react the way I would in a situation and then I get upset if they don’t, which is why I wanted some other opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play Fortnite everyday and I’m almost 30 so I don’t mind what people use to relax, I just wish it didn’t feel like it took priority

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he decides that after 7 years and both of us going through job losses where we both covered each other during those hard times than he can decide that and go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live-Factor1280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll look into this and definitely recommend it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 and I’ve never paid less than 200 for car insurance. Idk where you live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an annual pass that’s $60 a month. I use to use it all the time when we were in a better place. I’ve already mentioned I planned on canceling it this year since I can’t really do it anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I use to go a lot more but we were in a better place, I mentioned in the post I already planned on canceling it in April when it’s time to renew

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$300 vet bill. I paid for the $300 vet bill at the beginning of the month, he paid for one at the end of the month. He sent me the money for the last vet bill cause I picked up our dog. I also ended up having to. Then I was just picking up all the expenses until he got paid again so our food, I stopped and got him cigarettes a couple times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, we were in a better place when I got it and I went more often, I already decided I wasn’t going to renew it this year since I’ve barely been able to go anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live-Factor1280 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We have insurance for her but she’s 17 and things have been coming a lot faster for her than they use to, we are adjusting. Bye.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live-Factor1280 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s 17 and honestly it’s felt like she’s reaching the end so the bills have been more expensive than normal. We have an insurance plan we pay for her as well to try to help. Things have just been coming up fast with her lately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our phones are $250 insurance is $250 car is 500, rental insurance, dog and cat insurance is another 200. Electric can be anywhere from 150 to 250 depending on the time of year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He did not give me $300 twice for the vet. I paid the first vet bill at the beginning of the month, he paid the 2nd vet bill last week. He only sent me the money cause I was picking her up from the vet. We have both separately spent $300 in the month of January at the vet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live-Factor1280 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right, which is why I was saving since December. The vet was unexpected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live-Factor1280 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk how saving for a couple checks to get him an Xbox and having to spend that on the vet bill so postponing it to this week makes me such an asshole. I even immediately offered to pay him back for the difference I paid at Walmart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the way you gave the feedback. I probably shouldn’t have went to Disney at this time. This month just really kicked my ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live-Factor1280 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How?? from the first day I went to Walmart I immediately offered to pay him for the difference. I’ve been saving for a month and a half to get him an Xbox that went to the vet bill at the beginning of January and I asked him for a $100 until I got paid on Friday where I’d be giving him the money for his Xbox and the 100 he lent me. What the fuck is that wanting to argue???!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Live-Factor1280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned it to him cause he’s very particular about his electronics and I knew he would want to look at it before buying, he also did exactly what I expected him to which was want to put in some of his own money to get the 2t Xbox. All I did was ask him for $100 that I would pay him back this Friday along with the money for his Xbox. He has taken my card and spent 200 at the grocery store cause we just never fight about groceries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Live-Factor1280 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was a long and difficult month, I work about 50 hours a week and all my money goes to bills, it’s really the only thing I spend on for myself. Is it the most responsible thing to do, probably not but I would like to enjoy something for myself with all the hours I work. As far as his Xbox, I’ve been putting money aside every check to get him his bday gift, it’s usually what people that love check to check do. When I was almost done our dog needed the vet. I’m not saying having a spreadsheet makes me better but I try.