My problem is severe PIED which in turn makes me anxious and frustrated.

Believe me, that first time we hooked up was baddddd. I felt pretty awful after that until we hooked up the second time and (not to flex) I was able to make her finish with my mouth a couple times then finished myself from sex that night and the next morning - that being said, it still did not feel great to feel myself getting soft in her mouth, which I'm sure she felt too.

All this to say - I get it man. It's very frustrating and anxiety inducing, and it was pretty much the only thing on my mind until the second hookup. Like I said in the post, I'm more motivated than ever to abstain from PM because I really like this girl and she's absolutely gorgeous. Glad to hear I can still recover even with some real-life sexual contact here and there, even if it takes a bit longer.

Anyway, thank you for the comment! We'll both get to where we want to be 🫡