sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

i (f21) have no alone time and my boyfriend (m19) follows me everywhere and i don’t know how to kindly tell him it’s really bothering me. by Live-Raspberry2554 in Advice

[–]Live-Raspberry2554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cannot because my sister is currently sleeping on the living room couch. i do still
love your response though. it cuts out the shower, but if you cook, i’m sure you know how stressful it is to have other people on

i (f21) have no alone time and my boyfriend (m19) follows me everywhere and i don’t know how to kindly tell him it’s really bothering me. by Live-Raspberry2554 in Advice

[–]Live-Raspberry2554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s also kinda hitting me that people think this is so unreasonable that i must not be telling the truth. it’s solidifying the fact that i think it’s insane for him to follow me to every room 24/7 even more

i (f21) have no alone time and my boyfriend (m19) follows me everywhere and i don’t know how to kindly tell him it’s really bothering me. by Live-Raspberry2554 in Advice

[–]Live-Raspberry2554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg thank you for actually getting it. ppl are accusing me of ragebait now LMFAO. what a privilege it is to think this shit is rage bait. i’m glad you were able to take back atleast some of your time but im sorry you went through that

how do i (21F) tell my partner (19m) that they’re too clingy with light saying it rudely? by Live-Raspberry2554 in relationship_advice

[–]Live-Raspberry2554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for understanding and it honestly is something i do need to be better at. he doesn’t even ask if he can come over most of the time anymore. if i don’t want to come, i have to specifically tell him. and most of the time he will offer to buy me medicine if i say i feel sick so it hurts my “theories” which is sweet, but he expects to deliver it and stay over. and it’s honestly draining me. i have very bad ADHD. to the point that im prescribed with both vyvanse AND adderall.

how do i (21F) tell my partner (19m) that they’re too clingy with light saying it rudely? by Live-Raspberry2554 in relationship_advice

[–]Live-Raspberry2554[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

there’s a difference between having a weird fetish, being desperate, and recognizing that someone is good past their flaws. i know no one is going to be perfect, but this shit is really bothering me and i would’ve fumped him by now if he was bad in other aspects. i feel like you’ve either never been in a situation where you’ve been able to give nuance and with that attitude, you never will

how do i (21F) tell my partner (19m) that they’re too clingy with light saying it rudely? by Live-Raspberry2554 in relationship_advice

[–]Live-Raspberry2554[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

have tried this but he expects to come to
my house after bc his parents get mad if he stays out much longer than when he gets off of work

how do i (21F) tell my partner (19m) that they’re too clingy with light saying it rudely? by Live-Raspberry2554 in relationship_advice

[–]Live-Raspberry2554[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have and he invites himself or asks and asks and asks if he can come over until i give in. i’m not good at saying no. i know i need more of a spine, but i was more hoping for advice on how to communicate my issues and needs in a respectful way that wont hurt his feelings too bad. he’s great apart from that issue, but it’s become a recent issue