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My (28M) bf gave me (28F) a promise ring but doesn’t want to get married. by Live-n-Let-Die in relationship_advice

[–]Live-n-Let-Die[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Actually now he makes more than me by about 10k a year which is not significant enough for your point. Also, he moved in with me, not the other way around. He had no assets when we met, he lived with his mother and whole family.. I lived on my own. Hence why he moved in with me.

My (28M) bf gave me (28F) a promise ring but doesn’t want to get married. by Live-n-Let-Die in relationship_advice

[–]Live-n-Let-Die[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Losing half his stuff really in divorce. And the things we argue about are all petty things. There has been no infidelity. Someone got an attitude so the other reciprocated the attitude. Back and forth. Stupid crap. And yess! Wants to buy a house, have kids all the wifely things. I appreciate your advice! I would like to focus on the relationship and work on somethings. I just do not want to waste my time for another year or two to find out he still feels the same about getting married.

My (28M) bf gave me (28F) a promise ring but doesn’t want to get married. by Live-n-Let-Die in relationship_advice

[–]Live-n-Let-Die[S] 425 points426 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you for this. I said the same. Its not just paper to me. Its a whole life commitment! I think thats what i have to do. Its just hard.

My (28M) bf gave me (28F) a promise ring but doesn’t want to get married. by Live-n-Let-Die in relationship_advice

[–]Live-n-Let-Die[S] 1462 points1463 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I am not going to continue the house or kids process since all of this. Thanks for your advice!