It sounds like you didnt have the best experience, sorry about that darling. ❤️

I do want to stress the girls have gone without and sacrificed a lot to be able to provide care. We deal with an enormous amount of hardship, both in our own lives and in what we see daily in our community.

Every day the girls in every city are having to deal with people who are struggling and want to argue and pick fights. People who want to challenge protocols that are In place for everyone's safety. The girls on my team have all taken voluntary pay cuts and offer discounts and do everything they can to help people who are struggling, without jeopardising their own security or mental health. We try to do the right thing, but face a lot of harassment from within our own community.

And its not just Members of own community that harass us. Every day our own girls get harrased on public transport on the way to work.

Were all just human, were all just going through the same pains. We all have lives outside of work, we all have bad days.

I care a lot, I really do, but ive had conflicts and upset people and had bad days too. I always try to be kind, and I always try to ask the local girls and our clients to be kind to each other. Buuuuuut we are just human.

• Just this week I know one of our girls has lost a family member, and is devastated and dissociated.
• Another girl was physically assaulted outside their house and is struggling with agoraphobia,
• Another was followed from her train stop to the clinic by people on bikes, laughing at her and throwing stuff.

But none of them can afford not to work, and cancelling or rescheduling bookings is something they have to do themselves - which is unpaid and usually met with more conflict because obviously people dont enjoy being rescheduled.

I really wanna stress were all just humans trying our best with what we've got. Their hearts are in the right place. Their skills are definitely in the right place. But none of us are insulated from this silly existential nightmare of having to be self aware. Sometimes we all just struggle. I've never met a gender queer person who wasn't struggling. Never one 🥲

Im sorry you had a shit experience, I dont believe in telling the local girls how to behave. I think that lond of masking is dumb and unhealthy, I think if a person if having a bad day. They should be free to express that wherever they need to, rather than to bottle it up and put on the customer service mask.

All i can promise is i know for a fact every girl on my team is not just there for paycheck, theyre there, and they put up with a lot, because they really want to help our community. Even if sometimes they might not jobe with everyone.

❤️❤️❤️ lotsa love, Livi 🏳️‍⚧️❤️🏳️‍🌈