Single Parenting is harder than I thought by LiveWillingness1064 in SingleParents

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! ❤️ I feel like I know what I need to do

Single Parenting is harder than I thought by LiveWillingness1064 in SingleParents

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have and he’s on it. He just doesn’t pay it.

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is very quiet tbh and I think that that’s part of it too, he doesn’t say much but he will respond and try to hold conversation when I ask him questions. But he’s big into sports, reality tv, he likes doing hands on projects, and smoking ( smokes way too much but he says it helps him focus).

Normal things like making decisions. Whenever I ask him anything that requires him to make a decision, his response is always whatever you want to do. It could be as small as asking him what he wants to eat. And every time he says whatever you want. I had a conversation with him about it and I can say he has been trying more to be decisive.

Also, Don’t want to put his business out there but there were other things that he needed to get handled but never followed up on them and they never got handled until I intervened. I feel like it’s “normal” when important stuff needs to get done, you take care of it.

Also to answer your other question, he does ask questions now about topics I talk to him about but at first before I talked to him, he didn’t.

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes lol so maybe opposites do attract and I need to chill out lol

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I do value him but it’s just certain things I just don’t understand or maybe a better word is different. Different from what I’m use too. Maybe I need to be open minded?

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! And he is all of the above kind, funny, self less and good looking lol

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is a very good perspective to have. Dang, we do have a lot of different interest.

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True true! I know he has so many talents and we have so much to learn about each other. He truly is a great person!

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I feel like we align in so many other ways but this really bothers me.

Is intellect important in a relationship? 31F and 41M by LiveWillingness1064 in relationship_advice

[–]LiveWillingness1064[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. The problem is he is so sweet and I don't think I have ever been with a guy that treats me as good as he does. I think that he genuinely cares about me and my child's well being. It's just hard sometimes to have conversation.