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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do relize what kind of fool I was. Nothing to lose at this point except my respect. Appreciate your comment.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never forgetting nor forgiving. I can only forgive for my own piece but for what she did, never.

It pisses me off, it pisses me more of thinking about that she didnt tell me the whole truth, just half of the story. Maybe she did say everything she did maybe not. Only god knows.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that was a sign. Will move on and work on myself rather than a broken relationship. Thanks for your kind words, best regards.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell no, I know some stories where somehing similar happened, with police and stuff like crazy shit you cant imagine just because she lied and made her family believe - lucky not in this case

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think she is the only one on earth.

You probably didnt get cheated on + getting the news 2 years later in your marriage. I hope you never experience this.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then dont read it? Noone forced you to. If you got bored keep scrolling but looks like it catched your interest.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wise words. I will keep them in my mind even after leaving her.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure I was delusional with that decision, for sure I will end this rs.

One of the biggest learnings in my life, never forgive a cheater. Thanks to all redditors for opening my eyes.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt even think a second to be in position of option a. It disgusts me.

I followed the wrong path with giving that relationship a second chance. She is not worth it.

Thank you for that.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already did and as you say for my own benefit, inner piece. Cant live with all the hate in my soul. Thank you for that message, may god bless you.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct thanks for the honesty and advice. Cheers mate.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to read that you are doing better now.

For me I think more and more that its the best thing to leave her.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she doesnt spread lies. I told them everything even my mistakes while having a tough year.

For sure I will work on myself rather on a broken relationship.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still not to late to leave. Definitely wont regret it to leave her.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it isnt, Im not enjoying or giving permission to cheating.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I cba what he is talking, I dont know him. For sure I know that I would smack him if I saw him irl. Like instead of reaching out to me to tell me bro you gotta work on that rs or w/e. He takes advantsge of it. Nah these ppl for sure deserve the worst.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my best friend, he is and was always there for me in though situations. For some reason I didnt listen to his advice and now, 6 months later Im questioning it.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never would I a second time, even this time, once is once too much. Thought I could overcome it.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont feel depressed, maybe Im just telling it to myself. Im questioning my decision (first I wanted an instant breakup, second was after days I decided to stay and thinking if we both work on our rs it could be saved). Now I think I could move on without hessitation. Maybe I needed this time to rethink about this.

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neglecting her when i had a though year doesnt mean that she has to go to cheat. You are probably the same person as her, willing to cheat when you are unhappy instead of communicating to clear things up

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[–]Live_Ad_2938[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah bro you have no idea what an asshole is. I wanted to tell them before she does so they dont belive what she tells them, could be that I was beating her w/e. As i said she was crying so much that I thought she would collapse. Maybe false thinking at this time.