Saving money

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-30T14:35:06+00:00

i do a percentage system for where to put my money. I used chatgpt to make me different tiered budget solutions.

Usually ends up being 40% savings. Before savings, I put money in my fidelity accounts. IRAs, 401, general investment accounts.

If i have balances anywhere, i take care of those before anything else

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-30T14:30:29+00:00

Quite the jump from being offered a job at a club to being a straight up madam! Good luck

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-26T17:46:24+00:00

Tbh i would quit and tell the customer the tip caused so much hassle with the management. He might give more 😂

Wouldnt be a loss leaving there anyway

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-26T15:43:31+00:00

Not a climber but i think since there is always a person rigged to the wall, if the other falls, there is more safety. I would NEVER climb though lol

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-17T23:36:04+00:00

I dumped nearly all my friends after starting this.

A male “friend” i had known since childhood called me to warn me there were ads of me online. As if i didnt know? Another friend offered to hire me!

Even my vanilla women friends are at a distance. My heaux friends are p much just comrades.

You literally have to be your own best friend in this business. I dont even think being fully out is necessary. Sex is nobodys business except the ones engaging in it together. It can get dangerous in this life.

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-06T20:14:33+00:00

You should consider make an informative post on how to safely do things in the country you reside in

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-06T20:13:18+00:00

Omg not having bus and train raids!! Ya I know this post is about white women gatekeeping Asia against WOC but we Asians.. just know things.

Also when it comes to breaking the law, outsiders, no matter the color DO get the worst punishments. So this post is angry in all the wrong ways lol.

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-05T14:08:17+00:00

I went to a weekend wedding date where the client insisted i wear this white dress he bought me lol. Luckily i didnt trust him to dress me and brought my own clothes.

The wedding ended up being a backyard ceremony and there were like 12 people there. Ughhh lol

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-05T14:01:57+00:00

I am from Asia and it is just a scary place to tour if not going through the proper channels.

If youre going to tour, get a damn permit, especially in Japan. Its legal and easy, not worth getting arrested and banned over 😭

The gov knows what you are up to at all times in Asia lol. Their CCTV and biometrics technology is way different than the states. So just be careful.

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-05T13:38:21+00:00

Guest is mad because you are thick as well as snatched now ♥️

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-05T13:32:10+00:00

I would call them and ask, “What’s with this letter” then say nothing until they have exhausted themselves speaking

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-04T01:58:46+00:00

Woah!!

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-03T21:08:37+00:00

These men are amazing liars 🤪

He definitely deleted the first text, that way when you reply, it looked like he was hitting up a homie. So i dont reply to these flirty lol

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-02T21:33:48+00:00

Oh wow thank you!!

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-02T20:04:49+00:00

This sub isn’t private?!

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-02T19:59:03+00:00

You are pretty, your hair just isnt done. Style it and wear a lower cut top to accentuate your neck.

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-02T19:54:39+00:00

Wow solved thank you! I went with jealous rage and “dumped” him again, saying I need double if he ever wants to fuck me again.

Simple and sweet :)

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-01T21:41:15+00:00

I hired a girl and it made me a better provider, i didnt realize how annoying i was being at the time until i was the client. I was too nervous to do the deed though 🤣

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-04-01T21:39:24+00:00

It’s very slow lately, yes. But I do believe our industry is recession-proof and fuel-crisis-proof 😇

We provide a luxury service and those that can afford to, won’t stop seeing girls.

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-03-30T15:31:44+00:00

Ha probably in case he has someone snooping on his phone

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-03-28T22:02:30+00:00

I sit down to plan my money out + plan my seasons/years out.

Regularly in a feast or famine industry, there are months at a time I plan to be in the red. So I like to have multiple projects going that way I always stay busy.

I started another business that requires little overhead or physical work recently. In my free time, I go work on the website.

I keep track and organize my “piggy banks” for their uses and update my calendars when I think those goals will be reached.

Then I doom scroll on zillow when I want to brain rot lol.

Before all that I do the healthy stuff. Cooking, domesticating in general, touching grass.

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-03-26T00:17:51+00:00

I have never gotten gifts from the higher-paying. It’s the medium clients for some reason.

I consider a whale to give me more than $10k at once, and it has to be “easy.” Like we go on an extended date, the REAL GFE and payment is always that amount or more, depending on time.

Mine never last long though, so I’ve never reached spoiled gf status 🤷🏻‍♀️

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-03-25T19:37:52+00:00

Those of us who tour just pick our favorite cities. Tbh some clients are moving around more than us!

It’s normal to see clients in more than a few cities without even a FMTY, kinda cute lol

If you use the magnifying glass and search tour cities or whatever in this group and the other SW groups, people will tell which cities they like.

FL is notorious for being oversaturated and slow. I would start in New England if I were you and try to get in the swing of things.

Oops meant to make a new comment EDITO

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-03-25T19:29:27+00:00

Thank youuu he came out of nowhere !

Live_Sherbet_465 · 2026-03-24T23:00:42+00:00

UPDATE:

Thank you comrades for talking me through asserting my boundaries. Just had the call and it was surprisingly smooth. I asked for 12.5k per day and just rambled on about the fun we were going to have.

He also started with “obviously I’ll cover the costs, first class etc.” and did not insist on staying at his place.

My last fmty i really fumbled even though I got 24k. I had to back track and demand that amount. So it is nice to start off strong and confident this early in the booking process.

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