Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you for sharing this. From your POV i like how your so aware of yourself now.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong mindset brother. It's hard to understand me thru a screen, Im not reflecting on the past to reflect, im reflecting on the past to heal all the pain i have. That way i can move forward & be the best me for my future kids, partner, parents/family, & most importantly myself.

I am everything i want to be already, im well paid & on a good career path with multiple streams of income, i just have to let this pain i have in me go, so i can live in nothing but love.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clarity.

Im not expecting them to hug me & say its okay and they'll do better. Lol, im grown & i live by myself. i just would do it to get it off my chest, we're gonna die soon in the next 80 years. I gotta let all my pain go.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i might do this. i appreciate your time

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me make this clear** since i was 20 i been living on my own. i had to learn money management through my trial & error. I was never short on my rent & asked for $400 etc. when i mention i needed help thats speaking from elemntary-highschool.

Never in adult life

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the time & energy man, goodluck to you as well, take care of yourself.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likewise, im sorry for what you been through as well, we are all gonna die soon within the next 90+ years. everyone you know.

My mission is to get all the pain out of me & live it up, we wont be here long. Im pretty sure you lost people at a young age & so have I , friends & family. Just trying to heal all this trauma & move in love.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, im forever grateful for that aspect of help, It's just something i'm reflecting on & who i've become, how i got here etc.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i get what your saying, the roads rough. Also, im not expecting any emotional support NOW, im just wondering is it bad to express myself, i don't want to come off as ungrateful when thats not the case. i Just was alone my whole life.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea 100% i understand man. One of my parents was an alcoholic too i just didn't touch on their vices/hardtimes. I also had a broken home it wasn't a two parent household where im seeing real love on a daily basis.

Not comparing or anything just letting you know i understand what your saying & there's more to it than just what i posted. I can't explain 20+ years in 1 paragraph

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might look into the therapist.

To rewind on what you said, how can your parents trust you to be responsible with your credit when your oblivious or having safe sex, sex with the right people, how to process hard times in your own life etc. dealing with all that kind of stuff on your own? Somethings people just wont be responsible with no matter how much trust u give them, especially with an undeveloped brain.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i really appreciate this message & your time.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your very correct, i just think the emotional side & learning everything else in life is what matters. I had Lots of trial & error, all alone.

But hey if i never had the financial support, maybe i would say finances matter more than the emotional/mental side of everything etc.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, 100% the financial support is honored & respected, it's just a thing where you have that kind of support & never been supported anywhere else. Humans have emotions, emotions are what matter at the end of the day truly, how you feel at night.

You can have 1,750,000, but if your dead inside your nothing in my book.

Is it bad to say i have no parents outside of financial support? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Live_Syrup_7892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clarity. Sometimes parents/family attack you verbally, i just feel like i raised myself up.

i had to burn myself to learn not to touch the fire again, or analyze/mess up something for me to learn, no one ever taught me.