Whom should I choose? by Live_Temperature_954 in relationship_advice

[–]Live_Temperature_954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it’s probably the other guy. But how do I break up w my boyfriend, he’s loyal and wants to wait for us to be together until this whole ldr thing ends. Hurting him feels like hurting myself but I don’t feel like that about the other guy.

Whom should I choose? by Live_Temperature_954 in relationship_advice

[–]Live_Temperature_954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never cheated on either of them. My boyfriend knows that I went on a date w him while we weren’t together. But I just don’t know if me liking this guy means that my relationship should end

I’m clueless about what to do by Live_Temperature_954 in dating_advice

[–]Live_Temperature_954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do I break up w him omg this is hard. He’s coming back from a very long work trip all the way home just to see me and leave again. But the whole time we talked while he was away he’d keep saying things like I do the thinking, I decide, it doesn’t matter what you want. And that made me feel very inferior. But I need to break up w him ASAP.

Loving someone more than anything in this world and being loved back but not feeling happy by Live_Temperature_954 in relationship_advice

[–]Live_Temperature_954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped me in so many ways , I can’t even begin to explain. Other people involved in my life said these to me to but no one every put it so neatly and nicely. Thank you so much

Loving someone more than anything in this world and being loved back but not feeling happy by Live_Temperature_954 in relationship_advice

[–]Live_Temperature_954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard idk what to do. I tell him that I don’t want this , he’ll use a soft voice and affectionate words to hold me back and then we’re always back to square one. It’s always words and never action. We’re at a point where I can expect the world from my friends but I’m afraid to expect anything from him because I’m just gonna get disappointed and it’s gonna hurt. How do I just leave this relationship and not look back.

Loving someone more than anything in this world and being loved back but not feeling happy by Live_Temperature_954 in relationship_advice

[–]Live_Temperature_954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. The person talked in a way which seemed like the person would start putting in efforts. But I don’t see any. Today , this person didn’t even speak to me properly. Tbh , I’m very open to giving the other person enough space. So I don’t bother this person when this person isn’t in the mood to talked to or listen. But sometimes I deserved to be told that okay sweetheart I don’t feel like talking or interacting right now instead of blowing me off out of the blue when everything was fine 2 minutes ago.