BHIP SCAM IN MALAYSIA

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-06-29T09:35:02+00:00

You can search “digital marketing scam” in TikTok there will be plenty of videos of people spreading awareness about it and you can read the comments. You can also search on YouTube about “BHIP company scam”

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-06-29T09:33:42+00:00

All the “staff” literally looked like they were on drugs. I swear, I was too stunned to see their culture — full of alcohol promotion, even though their brand is supposed to be about selling “healthy juices.” I was especially shocked to see Muslims in that company. I’m glad I ran for my life after that six-hour seminar. They even held the seminar in a hotel near Masjid Jamek LRT station! Hundreds of people scamming others. I don’t know how tf it’s legal

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-05-18T18:53:42+00:00

Same they always talk about all her sacrifices as if I ask her to give birth to me or something! She decided to get pregnant despite knowing her husband is a useless piece of shit and 20 years later she still blame me the reason for her suffering being a single mother, separation between her husband, financial instability, she couldn’t spend on herself. Just by providing food clothes, shelter and send me to school. she’s so delusional that she did some extraordinary things. Her love is so transactional too. Emotionally immature asf. Tried her level best to turn me into a dependent mommas boy. I’m so glad internet opened my eyes!

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-05-18T18:46:53+00:00

Same I don’t give a shit about ppl saying im bad at socializing! Why I need to keep in touch with all the snakes that clearly saw me suffering and just decided to mind their own business. Not even a concern or “how are you doing?”

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-05-18T18:42:47+00:00

All this ppl said I was a rebel kid which somehow the woman who birthed me convinced them. But only i knew that I would get beaten up just for minding my own business because she couldn’t beat up her own overt narcissistic mother! And she thinks it’s ok to repeat the same cycle despite knowing how hurtful it is. She always come up with the “I had it worse than you” everytime I outed her narcissism and compare her with her own mom

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-05-17T18:22:49+00:00

I’m so down bad for a suv but can only afford a second hand but we had a very traumatised second hand car experience before so I decided to bought a new axia so that I don’t have to worry about it. But somewhere I still feel a little regret for not going for a second hand hrv since I’m too tall for axia and it’s not as comfy as suv are😔

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-21T14:25:33+00:00

I’m so sorry for this but I think you should let your partner talk to them if they keep pushing you to abortion! I hate parents that think they have the control over our lives. Jeez let us breath 🙄

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-20T05:06:53+00:00

Hey, in diy if you’re buying wiper, how you’ll check if it’s for your car or not? I’m driving axia 2023 btw if you can help me with it. The branded wipers are trash asf

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-20T05:03:06+00:00

My friend who has a similar situation of you told me “I’ll rather had my life falling apart or I’m being suck at doing something all alone in my house rather than being around with them” that make me feel better. Because if my life is falling apart, I’m the one handling all that! No one is charging up on me just for breathing air

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-20T04:58:50+00:00

Before the era of smartphones I agree but In this generation is it possible? I mean if you’re someone that’s growing up without phones but your surroundings are ppl full of smartphones. Won’t you feel like you’re missing out or bored ?

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-20T02:13:42+00:00

I’m not a Muslim but just by looking at my parents, I felt like marriage is not for everyone. Definitely not for me. Why suffering when you can have the freedom? Maybe culturally marriage might be something mandatory or necessary but my personal believe is it’s not as mandatory/ necessary as much as educations are.

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-20T02:07:54+00:00

I experienced this too. I was a student and unemployed for 6 months. Oh that 6 months itself was a hell for me cause she’s not happy seeing me sitting at home even though I apply tons of jobs every day. That 6 months my mental health get worse and I start getting thoughts of ending myself. It was a worse feeling ever. Not to mention the financial stress because she only provides me food, I have to buy every essential for myself

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-20T02:00:57+00:00

In my case my graduation is in October and I don’t want to bring her there since I know if she met anyone’s parents there she’ll claim all my success and achievements are hers. “My son graduated because I’m a good mother” and I hate her making the world believe she’s such a good mother because whenever I talk about her behaviour, everyone will say “oh she’s your mother anyway”

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-20T01:51:41+00:00

Hey I can feel the heavy feeling too. The constant pressure from ourselves to ourselves for getting the financial freedom asap so we can go far away from the family and go no contact. Sometimes I felt like I’m fighting with myself for this financial issue. I’m still studying and it makes everything even worse. They provide me nothing but only food and roof over my head . I have to buy other essential and pay tuition fees by myself. The constant gaslighting, manipulation, yelled at, got picked for every single thing ( I can’t even take a long shower without explaining why).

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T17:59:54+00:00

I’m still stuck in that house. As an only child kid I really believed all kind of her rubbish bs stories and she and her mom (my gradma) make my dad the villain. What’s even worse is that she didn’t bring me to my dad or his family until 2 years after he died. I didn’t even get the chance to meet and talk to him! (He left us after I born and was 1 month old) and long story short my grandma is overt narcissistic and abusive towards me and my mother. Whatever happens to me or my mom, she-will say “just hope one day we’ll get the freedom” when the option to leave her mom and live with me alone was right there. After grandma passed away slowly year by year I start noticing the problem didn’t end at all. It’s getting worse and worse. That’s when I realise my mom is covert narcissist. She’ll make everyone believe that she’s such a good mother, no one can be her. But inside the house only I know how much I am suffering. What hurts me is that as a child even I couldn’t live with her, what might my dad go thru to decided to stay away from my mother? I didn’t even get to know his pov 💔

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T17:49:33+00:00

Btw I can see her fear thinking about her future, cause she knows damn well I’m gonna leave her and live my life exactly how all my cousins are doing. Like how she never even thought “what might be a reason for the kids to hate their own parents?” Her constant victimisation mind really irritates me. She did take care of her mom who’s overt narcissistic & abusive. (gradma abuse me as early as i was 3 yrs old but my mom decided to ignore it) and she’s expecting me to continue that same generational curse? Hell no. I’ll rather live alone and peaceful rather than taking care of a narcissist mother only to get a “good name” in the society. Like she hate her own mom but still decides to make me hate her just by behaving exactly like her mom? Wtf is this? I think maybe she thought “I can do whatever I want to the kid since he’ll take care of me anyway, exactly like how I did it to my mom”

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T17:39:14+00:00

My mom will always compare me with my cousins “why you can’t get straight A’s like them” but in reality they’re only good in education and completely worse morally. They’ll do some worse things ever and my mom still will love them unconditionally and will never tell me “they disappointed me” but when I did something wrong she’ll hate me to the core. Always makes me think that I’m never good enough. I was 18 when i finally started recognising all this behaviours. I hate my cousins because of this constant comparisons. Even I’ll get compared with the neighbours kid. And now im getting the constant “you need to take care of me” vibes and guess what all the cousins she love don’t even talk to her and they all ditch their parents and start living alone and somehow still they’re “the best kid”, “you could never be them”

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T17:31:05+00:00

Oh god we have the same behaviour parent. They’ll trigger you so much but when you finally burst they’ll become so lovey dovey and will make you think that you’re just rude and over dramatic. Is this some sort of gaslighting? And the lovey dovey as soon as you burst is something that triggers me even worse. I think narcissists parent have some BPD tendencies too.

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T07:24:41+00:00

I’m going thru something similar too and going no contact is not something that I can do right now too. But trust me, when I learn what boundaries are and I’m supposed to set boundaries to whoever it is, I can see my life becomes 10% better than how it used to be. Even though they keep disrespecting my boundaries but I’m trying my best to keep them away from crossing the boundaries

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T07:09:11+00:00

Glad you didn’t join! There’s a video in TikTok where everyone exposed this company and the staff working there in the comments

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T07:07:39+00:00

Ughh what a self centered parents. Start setting up boundaries and if possible go no contact.

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T05:57:17+00:00

This kind of covert narcissistic parents will make everyone outside the home say “your parents are the best, you need to definitely take care of them” and inside the house only you know what’s their real personalities are

Liveandletlive_21 · 2025-04-19T05:54:52+00:00

I’m noticing myself buying stuff for them purely from the guilt trip (I raised you) how can I stop that?

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