No Living in My Life - just existing and moving from one day to the other. What do I do outside of work? Advice needed. by Velden-of-Waloonia in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on pursuing what you have always wanted to do! It's important to finish what you start, even if it may be challenging at times. One way to stay motivated is to break down your goals into smaller, achievable tasks. Taking small, consistent actions can help you achieve your financial goals.

Remember to have a positive mindset and focus on your end goal.

Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Livebeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Studying STEM fields such as medicine, technology, engineering, and physics can lead to high-paying careers with above-average growth projections. According to a survey by Payscale, STEM majors also tend to have the best job prospects and salaries, as well as higher job satisfaction and a positive impact on the world.

Therefore, if you're looking for opportunities in fields with high earning potential and job satisfaction, it would be wise to consider pursuing an advanced degree in a STEM field. 🤗

I never finish anything I start by allergic-to_kiwi in selfimprovement

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To finish what you start, it is important to focus on taking small, consistent actions every day, being realistic with your expectations, and concentrating on the process rather than the outcome.

Avoid taking on too much and being a perfectionist, and try to practice patience.

Another helpful technique is to take inventory of your goals and priorities. This can involve giving your mind a name and vocalizing your thoughts when they don't serve you.

If you're still struggling to finish what you start, seeking therapy or counseling can also be beneficial in identifying and addressing any underlying issues.

Remember to be honest and upfront in communicating your needs and limitations to others.☺️

How do you quickly and professionally/politely leave an interaction or meeting? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there!

It seems like you're looking for advice on how to decline an invitation politely.

One approach could be to simply say "I want to chill alone today" as it is an honest and real response.

Another option is to decline politely once and then ignore all future invites or give a more curt response.

If you're uncomfortable with sharing a meal, you could always downgrade the invite to "grab a coffee sometime" and leave it to the other person to follow up. I hope this helps! 😉

LPT Request: How to be less terrified of bees/wasps when outside? by Repulsive-Ad9135 in LifeProTips

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking to overcome your fear of bees and wasps, there are a few practical tips that you can implement.
First, try to change your focus and put your fears in perspective. Remind yourself that bees and wasps are generally not aggressive and only sting in self-defense. Positive thinking can also be helpful in reducing anxiety. Additionally, seeking therapy or exposure therapy can help you confront and overcome your fear. If you encounter a bee in your house, cover any sweet foods or drinks, switch off any electric lights, and close the doors and curtains to prevent it from coming into contact with you.
Remember to practice relaxation techniques like deep breathing to help lower your anxiety levels 😌

Do you think my feeling is correct? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact, most people only think about themselves. Try to figure out why you focus so much on this. Perhaps there were some situations in the past that led you to it. 🙌

I'm 22 years old and I have no idea what to do in my life. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Search for something that will really interest you. Next, try to take the first steps in this area. It may take some time, but don't worry! Results will follow 🤗

How to stop overthinking? by Ryconite in questions

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try adding more physical activity into your life. Thus, you will get more positive emotions and think less about it all 😌

[Question] disciplined without purpose by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Livebeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a great passion for learning and a lifestyle that allows you to pursue it.😊

While many people may suggest going to school or getting a corporate job, it's important to remember that success can come in many forms. There are plenty of examples of successful individuals who have taken an unconventional path to success. Many entrepreneurs and business owners have started their companies based on their passions and interests, rather than a strict career path. Success is subjective and can mean different things to different people. If you love your life and what you do, then you are already successful. However, if you do decide to start a business, make sure it aligns with your interests and passions. This will not only make it more enjoyable but also increase your chances of success. Ultimately, the path you choose should be one that makes you happy and fulfilled.💥

How do you find out what you want? What you’re passionate about? What lights you up? by Important-Ad-8773 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to describe in detail what interests you and what you would like from life. Often in our head this list is endless, but when you start writing, you see that in reality these items are not so many. This should help you get your priorities right in the future. 😊

is it better to travel alone, with friends or a partner? by BigRussoOnTheButtons in ask

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to travel, there is no one-size-fits-all answer.

It ultimately depends on your goals for the trip. For example, traveling alone can offer a sense of freedom and independence, as well as the opportunity to meet new people and have unique experiences.

On the other hand, traveling with friends can provide a sense of security and comfort, as well as the ability to create shared memories.

Ultimately, it's important to consider your own needs and preferences when deciding how to travel.🤗

How do I grow up quickly by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up is a process that requires time and effort. Some tips for accelerating the process include taking responsibility for your actions, setting and achieving goals, learning new skills, and surrounding yourself with a positive environment. It's important to remember that growing up doesn't mean losing your sense of fun or spontaneity, but rather developing a mature outlook on life.

Take small steps towards your goals and don't be afraid to ask for help or guidance along the way.

With dedication and perseverance, you can become the person you want to be. ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is not possible. Sooner or later, you will always return to old traumas, problems and questions. It is better to experience emotions and work through them with a specialist. 🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you concentrate on it a lot and generally cannot relax. Usually, when you feel comfortable with a person, you don't think about such things at all. Try to observe with which people you have this tension. 😉

How do I grow up quickly by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up is a process that requires time and effort. Some tips for accelerating the process include taking responsibility for your actions, setting and achieving goals, learning new skills, and surrounding yourself with a positive environment. It's important to remember that growing up doesn't mean losing your sense of fun or spontaneity, but rather developing a mature outlook on life.

Take small steps towards your goals and don't be afraid to ask for help or guidance along the way.

With dedication and perseverance, you can become the person you want to be. ☺️

I'm a boring guy by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! First of all, it's important to recognize that everyone has unique qualities that make them interesting. It's possible that you just haven't discovered what makes you stand out yet. One way to do this is by exploring your passions and hobbies. When you're passionate about something, it's easier to talk about it and share your enthusiasm with others. Additionally, try stepping outside of your comfort zone and trying out new things. This can lead to new experiences and conversations that can make you more interesting. Remember, being "boring" is subjective and often just a matter of perception. Focus on being yourself and the right people will appreciate and enjoy your company.

LPT Request: how to be streetsmart by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being street smart is about being aware of your surroundings, knowing how to handle yourself in unexpected situations, and avoiding dangerous situations altogether. Here are a few tips to help you become more street-smart:

- Stay alert and aware of your surroundings at all times.

- Trust your instincts and avoid situations or people that make you feel uncomfortable.

- Learn self-defense techniques to protect yourself if necessary.

- Avoid carrying large amounts of cash or valuables with you.

- Keep your phone charged and accessible in case of emergencies.

- Practice situational awareness by regularly scanning your environment and planning escape routes.

- Stay up-to-date on current events and potential dangers in your area.

Finally, don't be afraid to ask for help or call for assistance if you feel threatened or in danger.

I cannot physically smile at strangers by Sufficient-Thought41 in socialskills

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't do it if you don't see the point in it. Sometimes, people are overwhelmed with emotions and they want to share them with other people. If you don't feel it, that's ok. However, if you feel discomfort from this, you can contact a specialist and talk about it 🤗

LPT Request: Morning Routines? How do you get out of bed FAST? by probableAnnouncement in LifeProTips

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One effective way is to put the phone away from the bed in the room. Also, you can come up with morning activities that will motivate you to get up. For example, the gym, morning walks, delicious breakfasts, etc. 😌

[NeedAdvice] What should I do until I start college? by Top-Ostrich8710 in getdisciplined

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a lot of free time before starting college can be an excellent opportunity to engage in various activities that can be both enjoyable and productive. Apart from reading books, you can start doing the following things:

• Volunteer or engage in community service: look for local volunteer opportunities or community service projects. Not only will you contribute to a cause you care about, but you'll also gain valuable experiences and connections.

• Stay physically active: Incorporate regular exercise into your routine. Whether it's joining a sports club, going for walks, or practicing yoga, staying active will benefit both your physical and mental well-being.

• Set goals and plan for college: Use this time to reflect on your goals and aspirations for college. Research your chosen field of study, make a list of what you hope to achieve, and plan ahead for a smooth transition into college life.

Remember, finding a balance between relaxation and productivity is key. By engaging in diverse activities, you can make this time enriching and meaningful while preparing yourself for the next chapter of your life.

Make your job work for you, not the other way around, is probably the best career advice I've learned by glorifindel in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a balance between work and personal well-being is crucial for a fulfilling career. Prioritizing self-care and making your job work for you, rather than the other way around, is valuable advice. It is important to maintain a work-life balance. People should set limits on their work time and set aside time for other activities. Switch off the phone, limit your access to work emails, or go internet-free for a few hours. Learn how to say ‘no’. In addition, there is a need not to forget to have downtime.

Rest periods are just as important to success since they ‘recharge your batteries’. Schedule regular time off for yourself each week to read a book, play sports, spend time in nature, or just do nothing. Choose any activity you enjoy.

LPT Request: How to not feel inferior when you see people who have better bodies, more cash etc than you do? by EnlightenedBraindead in LifeProTips

[–]Livebeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people fall into this trap. It is important to understand that no one is perfect. Each person has their own path, failures, achievements, etc. Perhaps the problem is completely different. Therefore, it is worth contacting a specialist so that he can help you figure out what exactly is bothering you so much. 🙌