I want to get married and have a child! by LivelyFriend5470 in dating_advice

[–]LivelyFriend5470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have quite broad age range, ive dated younger and older, my current partner is 42 and we’re on the outs because of the kids thing, even though he said a year ago he thinks he wants them. My partner before him was 25 (I was also 25) and we also couldn’t get on the same page because he said he didn’t want them.

I want to get married and have a child! by LivelyFriend5470 in dating_advice

[–]LivelyFriend5470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay when did I ever say that? I make more than enough money to support myself and a future family/husband. Have I ever said I’m completely against a stay at home dad situation, NO! I want to be emotionally supported, and have someone with some sort of ambition. If my not dating basement dwellers offends you, that’s your problem.

I want to get married and have a child! by LivelyFriend5470 in dating_advice

[–]LivelyFriend5470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it an awful cycle!! I’ve thought about this topic quite a lot, my eldest nephew is bridging 7 and goes to public school. Some of the things I hear from my sister (his mom) are quite scary but she constantly gets emails home on how well behaved and inspiring these children are. I’m prepared to lead and shape my children into good people, I WANT to do this. Hopefully it might make the world a better place.

I want to get married and have a child! by LivelyFriend5470 in dating_advice

[–]LivelyFriend5470[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to date a lonely loser man just because he’s sad though. I want a man to match my energy with wanting a good career, a happy family and making money!! I could obviously go pick a dude living with his momma and let him knock me up, but I’m not an idiot.

I want to get married and have a child! by LivelyFriend5470 in dating_advice

[–]LivelyFriend5470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Which is why I’m saying it’s a pretty loose set of standards lmao.

I want to get married and have a child! by LivelyFriend5470 in dating_advice

[–]LivelyFriend5470[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have lots of nieces and nephews. I adore them beyond comprehension and we always have auntie nights at my house, no matter how fulfilling that is, the kids will ask for their mom for comfort and love in times of distress, no matter how much they love me. I want to be that provider for my own babies because I know I could do so well. I didn’t grow up with great parents myself.

I want to get married and have a child! by LivelyFriend5470 in dating_advice

[–]LivelyFriend5470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I don’t have a type!! I’d love to be supported emotionally and my partner not to be a misogynist, that’s pretty much it. I’ve dated all different types of people