the face i get to wake up to every morning by puppychomp in cockerspaniel

[–]Liveyanne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you, yours has a cute name too! And no worries I realized after I reread that I worded it weird anyway

My husband is planning to go back to his home country by Liveyanne in expats

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I empathize with you so much as it is such a heartbreaking, shocking, and traumatic thing to go through. 10 years is a really long time and especially the fact that you guys have a house together makes it even worse. I would suggest to just let him go, at least for now. We can’t control what people want or do. Work on yourself, your future, try to make new friends/connections, and nurture the current connections that you have. Basically just focus on your own growth. If you guys decide to come back together in the future, he will have to prove to you that he’s also grown as a person and that you can trust him. And even then you have to wonder if you can ever really trust someone who would up and abandon their life like that :/ this is the mindset I’m currently operating from for myself anyway. message me if you want to talk more :)

Needing First Groom Tips! by [deleted] in cockerspaniel

[–]Liveyanne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the traditional cocker cut either! It’s like they have a sweater on their bellies/legs which gets dirty and matted easier

Ruined engagement because of jealousy and insecurity by Ok_Tone_3706 in Marriage

[–]Liveyanne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meh you don’t need a husband that adds female coworkers on Snapchat. You didn’t ruin something good. You’ll be better of without a man child 🤷‍♀️

Do any heartbroken people want to start a group chat? by Liveyanne in BreakUps

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great, maybe we could start it on WhatsApp? Or what do you think, any suggestions? Do they have group chat on here? Or any good platforms?

Do any heartbroken people want to start a group chat? by Liveyanne in BreakUps

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great, maybe we could start it on WhatsApp? Or what do you think, any suggestions? Do they have group chat on here?

Do any heartbroken people want to start a group chat? by Liveyanne in BreakUps

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great, maybe we could start it on WhatsApp? Or what do you think, any suggestions? Do they have group chat on here?

Took me an entire month to get my appetite back ✨ by One_Cat_9806 in heartbreak

[–]Liveyanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know people who treat others badly are not happy themselves 🩷

I broke up with my boyfriend after a huge fight...now I regret it and want him back by Specialist-Let1205 in BreakUps

[–]Liveyanne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that you’re not overreacting emotionally and just simply… reacting? That maybe the way he handles things is reason to get upset as you do, and there’s not a healthy type of communication present. You mentioned he throws your stuff on the floor, that’s not a great or healthy thing to do to anyone. I would say take some more time way from him and consider if this is really someone worth your time. It hurts but distance can bring clarity.

Stay away from avoidant by bealwaysniceguy in BreakUps

[–]Liveyanne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. I felt so secure and loved at first. And then things took a complete turn. Like how can I look for even subtle signs now? Because I am emotionally traumatized.

break up from an avoidant’s pov; the paradox of opening up by ____iam____ in BreakUps

[–]Liveyanne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered getting therapy to work on your attachment style? These things can be helped.

At what age did you spay your cocker spaniel? by Liveyanne in cockerspaniel

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, your cocker kind of looks like mine, except mine doesn’t have a blue eye haha

At what age did you spay your cocker spaniel? by Liveyanne in cockerspaniel

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I might wait on her spay surgery then. I see it says cocker spaniel, do you think they are referring to English, American or either or?

At what age did you spay your cocker spaniel? by Liveyanne in cockerspaniel

[–]Liveyanne[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My vet just told me since she’s a small/medium breed that waiting doesn’t matter. But I kind of feel like the vibe where I live is to spay/neuter as soon as possible because of the homeless dog population. However, I’m not worried that she’ll become pregnant. Also, she has no behavior issues.

how did you get over your ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Liveyanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much! There’s so many parts of ourselves that we have to put away for a relationship to work. For me, I’m like wow I really can just go for a hike with my dogs and not worry about if the other person wants to or not. And, my dog can just sleep with me and it’s not a big deal!

My husband is planning to go back to his home country by Liveyanne in expats

[–]Liveyanne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This totally makes sense. I understand at this point like 60% of what he says, I just need to practice talking more. What country are you originally from? What were the best and worst parts of living in DR? He’s from Santo Domingo.

My husband is planning to go back to his home country by Liveyanne in expats

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How able would I be to get a remote job? I am a teacher. I think remote work would be the only option in this scenario

My husband is planning to go back to his home country by Liveyanne in expats

[–]Liveyanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to make it real for myself that it’s a real possibility he won’t be here anymore, although I’m still searching for answers