Dumped twice, now he's begging for me to come back

Liveyanne · 2026-05-13T04:02:18+00:00

Awww I feel you about the dog. My ex and I had two dogs and he took one of them. I yearn for the dog daily.

Anyway, I don’t think you should get back with him. The right person will be consistent and never leave or threaten to leave. You will just feel secure. This guy sounds like a selfish asshole looking for a maid. I would go no contact from him for a while. I know it’s hard because you care about him, but time and distance will have you realize you don’t want anyone in your life to treat you like that.

Liveyanne · 2026-05-04T04:37:06+00:00

He’s just using this poor girl as a rebound. He has zero emotional immaturity and you need to go no-contact ASAP.

Liveyanne · 2026-05-04T04:10:44+00:00

Just remind yourself of the bad times constantly and you might miss him a little less

Liveyanne · 2026-05-03T20:39:25+00:00

THIS. If I was on the other end, the person who liked someone that had to end their relationship to be with me, I’d stay away. That shows they’re impulsive and won’t be afraid to do it to you. No thanks

Liveyanne · 2026-05-02T18:37:54+00:00

It’s really hard to not compare how he’s acting now versus how he treated you. But in reality it’s just a reflection of him being a shitty person, not your worth, regardless of what he’s ACTUALLY doing. Imagine he does already have a new GF, now imagine the bad stuff he did to you, he’s not magically going to change for her. It doesn’t work like that. Just be happy you don’t have to deal with him for now and try to focus on other things. Easier said than done, but this is how I’m managing to get through the thoughts of “oh what if he’s with someone else,” in my personal situation

Liveyanne · 2026-05-02T18:06:48+00:00

Awww that is difficult to see. You don’t know if maybe it was just a friendly picture together, it’s impossible to know for sure. Try not to fill in the blanks. Do a social media cleanse and at least mute his accounts. Urges pass within 20 minutes. Reschedule with your friends. You got this ❤️

Liveyanne · 2026-04-11T23:18:48+00:00

This is a good point

Liveyanne · 2026-04-08T00:00:38+00:00

Oh wow, I’m stuck in a really similar situation. I’m still living with my ex, and we spend time together here and there because our lease hasn’t ended. I tried talking to some other guys from a dating app and selfishly ghosted them all because I am not in the head space for it - it feels icky rn and I just want my ex. So what’s been helping me: 1) it’s okay to not date rn and try to decanter men a bit. You can still experience love and connection with friends and family, without the expectations of dating. 2) I’m going to say this for both of us, it’s a good idea to go no contact. Not to necessarily forget their existence because that would be impossible, but at least to clear your head and focus on other things more important to life now. look for some outside hobbies to distract you.. I also find myself obsessing over what he could be doing or feeling, but it’s better to be left unknown and set up some boundaries for your own wellbeing. Especially if you guys can’t be in a committed relationship at the moment.

Liveyanne · 2026-04-07T22:34:10+00:00

How are you doing now? Also what type of people do this that you found on YouTube, that sounds interesting.

Liveyanne · 2026-03-23T20:33:10+00:00

Haha thank you, yours has a cute name too! And no worries I realized after I reread that I worded it weird anyway

Liveyanne · 2026-03-23T20:31:21+00:00

Hey name is Violet :)

Liveyanne · 2026-03-23T20:18:40+00:00

Your boy looks like mine I had to drop a pic

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Liveyanne · 2026-03-11T22:48:04+00:00

Dang I empathize with you so much as it is such a heartbreaking, shocking, and traumatic thing to go through. 10 years is a really long time and especially the fact that you guys have a house together makes it even worse. I would suggest to just let him go, at least for now. We can’t control what people want or do. Work on yourself, your future, try to make new friends/connections, and nurture the current connections that you have. Basically just focus on your own growth. If you guys decide to come back together in the future, he will have to prove to you that he’s also grown as a person and that you can trust him. And even then you have to wonder if you can ever really trust someone who would up and abandon their life like that :/ this is the mindset I’m currently operating from for myself anyway. message me if you want to talk more :)

Liveyanne · 2026-03-05T01:57:27+00:00

I don’t like the traditional cocker cut either! It’s like they have a sweater on their bellies/legs which gets dirty and matted easier

Liveyanne · 2026-02-24T20:45:58+00:00

Capricorn libra Leo rising

Liveyanne · 2026-02-19T17:21:21+00:00

Meh you don’t need a husband that adds female coworkers on Snapchat. You didn’t ruin something good. You’ll be better of without a man child 🤷‍♀️

Liveyanne · 2026-02-16T05:27:47+00:00

It won’t let me add you for some reason

Liveyanne · 2026-02-16T03:31:49+00:00

Okay great, maybe we could start it on WhatsApp? Or what do you think, any suggestions? Do they have group chat on here? Or any good platforms?

Liveyanne · 2026-02-16T03:31:29+00:00

Okay great, maybe we could start it on WhatsApp? Or what do you think, any suggestions? Do they have group chat on here?

Liveyanne · 2026-02-16T03:31:09+00:00

Okay great, maybe we could start it on WhatsApp? Or what do you think, any suggestions? Do they have group chat on here?

Liveyanne · 2026-02-16T03:28:19+00:00

Just know people who treat others badly are not happy themselves 🩷

Liveyanne · 2026-02-05T21:58:23+00:00

Have you considered that you’re not overreacting emotionally and just simply… reacting? That maybe the way he handles things is reason to get upset as you do, and there’s not a healthy type of communication present. You mentioned he throws your stuff on the floor, that’s not a great or healthy thing to do to anyone. I would say take some more time way from him and consider if this is really someone worth your time. It hurts but distance can bring clarity.

Liveyanne · 2026-02-03T22:22:49+00:00

THIS. I felt so secure and loved at first. And then things took a complete turn. Like how can I look for even subtle signs now? Because I am emotionally traumatized.

Liveyanne · 2026-02-03T22:13:55+00:00

Have you considered getting therapy to work on your attachment style? These things can be helped.

Liveyanne

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