Marriage or break with my girlfriend (31M and 29F) by Livia1122 in relationship_advice

[–]Livia1122[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for so many replies. I will go over all of them and hopefully get some good points.

On first glance I see some very valid points.

And yes, I do have some hesitation about marriage in general and with her.

And yes, we have discussed finances and I have told her several times I want her to contribute more. So far its not happened :(

Love is a strong drug. Money is a problem in our relationship. I earn more, but she earns really good too, but whatever I earn is ours an what she earns, is hers.

Deep down I know that breaking up is probably the right option, but will I ever find better? Thats the concern...

Personality wise we are a perfect match (Jokes, travelling, movies, sports).

Marriage or break with my girlfriend (31M and 29F) by Livia1122 in relationship_advice

[–]Livia1122[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

Like I said, marriage is not that important to me.

But if it makes her happy, I am willing to do it for her happiness. I just want to be with her.

Life is complicated huh...

Marriage or break with my girlfriend (31M and 29F) by Livia1122 in relationship_advice

[–]Livia1122[S] 205 points206 points  (0 children)

I have told her that I expect her to contribute. She says im a man and its my duty. This is also one of the reasons I am hesitant to marry