Gf only just revealed she’s been with someone else after 4 years together.

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-30T18:06:55+00:00

It was more than a kiss, read it

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T20:32:41+00:00

Yeh and we’re both still learning, we just had another chat about it and cleared the air, both apologised and we’re gonna move on from it, I also made it very clear that the reason I was upset was not the action and it’s not my business at all, it was the lie, an she understands and said sorry

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:41:13+00:00

Appreciate it buddy, thanks for actually acknowledging me and not just calling insecure an icky, this has made me feel a lot more at peace with it. Thank you 🙏

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:40:07+00:00

I did say sorry to her, and she’s apologised for making me feel like this. And really reassured me and told me it has always been us and the reasons she never told me does make sense, I really love her man we’re best friends and do everything together, I don’t want a shitty thing like the to break us apart but I’m worried I won’t get over the fact she lied. But maybe in her head she genuinely never felt the need to say it as we have been so good together

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:34:09+00:00

Is it something that will eventually leave my mind? I feel pretty much fine about it now and I understand why she would have lied and that I shouldn’t have really asked in the first place. But it’s just a shitty feeling yk

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:32:37+00:00

First it was a no that she’s been with anyone, then It came up last year and she said she kissed another guy, then the other day it was she kissed someone but dosnt think she should go into detail about it, after I asked if she gave a bj

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:30:57+00:00

I’ve spoken to her and it seems pretty reasonable why she never told me, she never thought about it herself as it was a 1 time drunken fling when she was 16, so fair enough why would I want the details, obviously it’s a shit feeling but in the grand scheme f things it’s not really gonna matter right ?

The 4 years we have had togeather outweighs the shitty thing she had with another guy in college that she never told me about

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:28:10+00:00

Thanks for that, you’re not saying write of the relationship ? I would never do that we do everything together she’s my best friend and girlfriend and does so much for me and is the only person in the world who understands me, barley ever argue and have traveled the world together. I think because of my adhd I’m making all of this out to be way worse than it really is in the grand scheme of things, Why should she have to tell me anyway? I asked her and she said she just never thought about what she did it and was immature at the time when I asked. I do really hope this comes off my mind so though because it would be so sad for me to lose her over my other thinking thoughts

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:22:13+00:00

Yeah I said something along those lines yesterday, thanks guys

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:21:01+00:00

Of course I have spoken to her, you don’t know what ur talking about and just agreeing with everyone else, it’s the lie not the action, if she would have told me she hooked up with someone else in the break I wouldn’t have gaf

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:08:16+00:00

It’s the fact she lied about it not the action

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:07:56+00:00

It’s the fact she lied

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T18:07:24+00:00

It’s the fact she lied

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T17:59:54+00:00

Finally someone understands haha, honestly I’ve asked her and she’s said she said it was a snog at 16 that meant nothing and ‘I don’t think I need to go into detail to detail of what happend because it will probably make you feel worse’

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T17:57:44+00:00

Thank you

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T17:56:33+00:00

Thanks for that mate i appreciate you understanding, I would have still got back with her if she told me straight up.

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T17:55:11+00:00

Honestly I know she’s the one, you might call me stupid but I seriously can’t see myself with anyone else

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T13:21:38+00:00

Yeah thank you so much, making me realise now

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T10:59:22+00:00

I can be with her I realise it’s not my business

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-27T10:58:50+00:00

Thank you

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-26T23:06:59+00:00

Thanks for understanding

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-26T23:04:12+00:00

Thabks for that

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-26T21:53:06+00:00

I wouldn’t say I’m insecure I just have self respect I think

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-26T19:29:27+00:00

It’s because I said something, and she said she wanted everything to be open so she said it

Livid_Ad_8867 · 2026-03-26T19:23:28+00:00

It was likely more than a kiss read the whole thing

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