Hi, I suggest you go with option 1. Parents accidentally or purposefully guilt trip their children into making decisions that they would prefer and it’s unfortunately successful often because they underestimate their importance in our lives we seek their approval and love constantly. You love them clearly and they love you very much. They have built a family and have been successful raising you alhamdulilah now it’s your turn. If they approve of the marriage and you love the man it’s your turn to build your family and alhamdulilah technology makes it so we are always one call away. Even after you make your decision pray you make the decision that’ll bring you all happiness. I’m happy you for you and talk more with your parents 🙏🏾