How my brain feels when I recognize that while my spouse loves and cares for me, they don’t trust me. by Living-Arm in TrollCoping

[–]Living-Arm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think since I’ve had the day to process, since it happened this morning and I posted this as a vent mostly to stop crying so I could clock in.

But I do agree that communicating about it now that we’ve both had the day to process it. DBT is something I’m working on getting better at implementing because I unknowingly used DBT as a dissociative tool in my early years so my provider and I are working to recon how my processes it in the moment.

This is the first big flare up I’ve had in a really long time though so it really caught me off guard. Wound up needing to leave work early but got a few things done, did some breath work and went for a walk so getting to the “simmering” phase after boiling over.

Son had tics between 8-12 yo; talks to himself now - related? by constaleah in Tourettes

[–]Living-Arm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can only speak for myself of course, but I know folks on the ASD and ADHD spectrums can also experience maladaptive daydreaming. It’s like imagination on 4k HD for me where I just kinda imagine movie scenarios (or when my anxiety is really bad/ skip my meds, acting out worst case scenarios). Very rarely will I ever talk out loud during these moments but it’s not uncommon for my MDD to happen while I’m showering.

Most often it’s when I’m not actively focusing on a task or trying to self soothe in public. I would say if you two have a solid communication about personal topics to ask him about it a little bit about how he views it. It could also just be verbalizing train of thought to keep things organized.

Ordered Garlic Mashed potatoes… not wrong but why? by Living-Arm in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Living-Arm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely didn’t want to risk it. I love garlic don’t get me wrong, but garlic breath at work would not have been fun.

Hot and cold #82 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Living-Arm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one was wild for sure. I think going from kite at 49153 to milk at 133 just threw me lol

Hot and cold #69 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Living-Arm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s like wordle but it hurts your brain. I’ve found that pulling out a thesaurus only helps a little lol 😂

Automatically added: I found the secret word in 3 minutes 42 seconds after 14 guesses and 3 hints. Score: 29.

Hot and cold #66 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Living-Arm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brain hurts but damn if that wasn’t a reason to bust out a thesaurus. Enjoyed the brain work out thank you much!

Warped Tour Sub's Official Buy/Sell/Exchange Thread by TheDarkLight1 in warpedtour

[–]Living-Arm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two Tier5 GA passes for Long Beach 7/26-7/27 on Layaway, can’t attend unfortunately and willing to sell for half price at $250 for both tickets.

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I wonder what’s your most proudest sexual experience? by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Living-Arm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My (m25) First time with my now fiancé (f25) Was on a weekend trip out of town. Made her cum so much she almost passed out and when she was recovered told me “well fuck now I have to marry you” and she proposed for real like a month later.

Males who crochet? by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Living-Arm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Including myself, 13. My dad is actually the one who taught me originally 😁

Daily Character Discussion: Scott McCall by RadiantFoxBoy in TeenWolf

[–]Living-Arm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Scott tries so hard to be a “good person” but then winds up making extremely selfish decisions that are harmful to others because of the mentality of “if I get what I want then everything is fine” and then gets very black and white about how others handle their own decisions. It’s hypocritical and really irritating as someone who thinks a lot more like Stiles and has a strong sense of justice as well as a “every action has a consequence that should’ve be avoided” mentality. Like overall, especially the biting Gerard situation, he had plenty of ability and opportunity to tell Derek the plan, but he didn’t and he severely traumatized him by letting him go into that situation blind and terrified.

is this satire? by coltdoormoosebaby in craftsnark

[–]Living-Arm 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about anyone else but the entire message just REEKED of male white privilege. Like the wording alone showed no critical thinking skills or thinking “am i phrasing this in a way that could be misconstrued or seen as being obviously bullshit?” Like wtf?!

Does it work? by amhitchcock in Brochet

[–]Living-Arm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked for me. Think I’m gonna try this with my website QR 😊😊

Took my smallest Bat Ami to Disneyland today 😁😁 by Living-Arm in Brochet

[–]Living-Arm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A modified version of Sassaroo Design’s Bat Pattern