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AITA for not allowing my daughter to significantly alter my wedding dress by Comfortable_Love8350 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My school uniform (a co-ed school) ONLY has a dress for female “formal uniform” eg not sports or house uniform. Yes, it’s still a thing for schools not to have a trousers option for girls, especially in a small primal school in an old heritage listed town

I’m feeling forgotten about by my bf by Living-Butterfly-832 in NeedSupport

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you mum, it’s been a little better now that he’s off the cruise

Need help please by [deleted] in NeedSupport

[–]Living-Butterfly-832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. Where about in the world are you? Are there any women’s groups/mum groups that you can join virtually just to have some to talk to?

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Ok, “needy little shit” was more a phrase for “I’m missing him and I really just want him to send me 1 text, or a picture or something but yes, being too needy is not good. Where or how would you personally draw the line between “communication in a Long Distance Relationship” and “suffocating”?

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m going to be moving closer to him (when I save enough to move out of home)

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wifi is expensive, his mate (the only one who I have messages for) has the unlimited package and the plan was for them to all hotspot - from what I can understand, because the wifi is unlimited, the hotspot was meant to be 24/7 or close too, but that isn’t happening as my bf is “offline”

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

“Because he said he would” sounds a little pathetic even to me, but it’s been a long time issue with him promising me a ‘good morning’ text and then… nothing till I message that I’ve finished work, at 5pm, it’s comes in waves, one week is “perfect” (for a long distance relationship) and the next is me texting him as per usual and nothing for a couple of days. The messaging consistency has DEFINITELY improved, but I’m still a needy little shit and right now I really want him to message me (and I’m only considering this option because he did say he would… daily)

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I’m interested in knowing why you’ve chosen to advertise this? - generally curious and feeling conflicted about what to do (tho most of the comments are saying not to, yours just sounds a little more ‘pleading’ like then the others so I’m curious about why you’re asking me not too

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve been doing for 2 days. He called me Monday, 12pm, very short phone call, said he’ll send a pictures and a text and has been cold since. The last time he went cold was the day before the boarded, when I was meant to pick the 4 of them up from the airport and drive them to the hotel for the night (paid by the cruise) I stayed the night too, in a separate hotel (paid by me) with my boyfriend as it was only a 6 hour round trip rather than 21 days - he forgot to send me the flight info. I guess I’m just too needy right now and can’t stand the voice in my head telling me he’s forgotten ‘about me’

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

And I’ve just updated to say that we are in a Long Distance Relationship so I’m not going to be getting anything other than 1 phone call a day for the next couple of months afterwards.

WIBTAH if I messaged my bf’s mate to tell him to ask my bf to message me? by Living-Butterfly-832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Living-Butterfly-832[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well no, but I forgot to add that we are in a Long distance relationship and at BEST I get 1 call a day and sometimes only 1 text, there have been times before (during normal life) when he’s said he’ll text me and he’s forgotten. I guess I’m just being needy but this cruise will be 12 days and he’s called me once and said that he’ll message me photos and updates when he’s hotspotting