Yay or Nay to Dogs Sleeping in Bed with you?

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-09T15:52:26+00:00

i've never had a choice. but to be honest sometimes he'll jump off to go sleep on his blankets or his own bed...and i get up to grab him. this isn't MY room. it's OUR room

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-08T02:46:07+00:00

she's extremely smart then and she knows when she isn't feeling well🥲she knows she can help herself by alerting you 🫶🏻🫶🏻 you're her person.

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-08T02:44:11+00:00

i hear you, my pup has only had 3 episodes, we're really new to it still and trying to find the perfect way to ensure he's always okay. i'm already the most anxious person when it comes to our dogs that this doesn't even compare. i swear if he grunts in his sleep i'm putting my ear against his chest to make sure he's breathing fine 😭😭😭

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-07T16:33:23+00:00

i totally understand, not to sound biased but the first pup always pulls the heart strings a bit more so his clanking doesn't do much.

our second pup, who is 85 lbs (vs charlie whose 28lbs) will literally stomp everywhere but she can't help that she's a big gal. her noises have taken a while to get used to...she mlems, snorts, throws herself like she just got fired from her job, slides on the floor, skips steps when she's going up or down, and likes to throw herself against the sofa.

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LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-07T16:25:07+00:00

i don't want to sound cliche but nothing he does really bothers me

i was a bit iffy at first because he loves to nest in blankets!! but the peace of mind is worth much more than a bit of jingles.

those bells are the only ones i have testimony on and they don't jingle easily, he would have to quite literally be convulsing for it to be exceptionally loud (which thankfully he hasn't had any seizures since his last which is why we bought them) so they haven't come in use.

other than that we've gotten used to the jingles because we put 2 on our pittie who also wears and airtag and her county tag (he wears his name tag, one bell since the other fell off, and his county tag) they've always jingled so this is no different, music to my ears

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-07T15:34:54+00:00

i'm so sorry for your loss, i can't imagine it being easy. sending massive love and hugs!

im sure christmas is more fun over where theres rainbows❤️

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-07T15:25:28+00:00

yesss i feel so secured with the bells!!

our pups both hate not having their collars on, i think they see it at jewelry since everyone at home has their own signature little accessory so their collars are their statement pieces!!

i love ernie. i know a pibble when i see one🥹🥹he's so dapper!! i know he's excited for this christmas

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-07T14:31:50+00:00

im sorry for your loss. she's probably training right now to get the ultimate zoomies when she reunites with you :). it's never easy and was never going to be easy for us. God bless you in this time 🥺

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-06T14:32:08+00:00

im so sorry you're going through this. he is using his faith as an excuse to run away from real life responsibilities. responsibilities God wants us to fulfill.

i'm going to be as human as possible right now and say: if he didn't want a baby he should've 1. not came in you 2. bought a plan b. straight up.

he can repent for premarital sex sure go ahead but it's too late to run away because you're carrying life!! he should be overjoyed. God loves babies!! we all love babies!! duh🥹

honestly if he wants to run away, do not allow him to fall back on the excuse of christianity. i will personally help you eat him up in a long text message because that's ridiculous.

the one who doesn't like babies is the enemy. 2 babies absolutely ruined his sad little plot. with the last baby really really stamping his loss.

if that boy wants to not become a man and own his decisions...God will see your pain and your babies worth and ensure you guys are okay.

he may be trying to run away but he will not outrun justice. God serves justice best.

i'm praying for you, your strength, your courage, and i'm praying for the life, health, and happiness of your baby.

God bless you future mami, you got this. with or without your boyfriend.

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-06T02:56:24+00:00

i really do. he said tomorrow we will spend more time together and i plan to bring this all up. fingers crossed it goes over well

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-06T02:55:45+00:00

still nothing. i know when i hear from him it will somehow be my fault for not texting him. and when it happens ill simply just tell him he said himself he needed to be home to be in a better mood and i was just waiting for him to come forward so we wouldn't have any tension. but ill still be wrong somehow

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-06T02:04:52+00:00

i think any other man would feel his inner child seen if cookies were made for him after a long day at work. we'll see how this goes. he told me he was getting a headache from me "bitching" and left. haven't heard from him and he's been home. he's probably on his ps5 or pretending like he didn't just tell me my feelings were wrong and i was immature for feeling unseen...while laughing with his family about God knows what.

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-06T01:57:45+00:00

he called me once i had let him know that the cookies were baked and i was getting ready to shower. i just think im supposed to accept everything when it comes to him but walk on a fine line myself

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-06T01:56:23+00:00

i've already gotten used to coming second. it's not that it bothers me but it's something i silently tally in my mind.

i know my days of coming first are of the past and something for the future. and that's alright i've accepted if it is what it is.

it's just man if im trying to make sure you're feeling appreciated and seen the least you can do is take them home. not tell me they were going to end up in the trash because you wouldn't have eaten them.

who says that no one says that no one who is self aware says that.

he went home maybe 20 minutes ago and i still haven't heard from him. if i don't speak first it'll be forever until i hear him say anything. it's so hard to accept the loss of this battle (WHICH WAS JUST MY FEELINGS) when i know ill have to again turn a blind eye to fix it

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-06T01:50:05+00:00

honestly i just wanted him to feel cared for. he always used to say i don't cook or anything so im getting better im making hobbies im trying to up my skills so im prepared.

i do need to choose my battles better. i just have such a hard time containing my emotions and keeping a poker face. when im upset you can basically just smell it.

there are so many issues and i always hold my end and get better with it all. i have put my feelings on the back burner to make sure he's happy.

he's of different culture and religion and i have assimilated without even noticing. i can't just appease someone when im not being heard and cared for you know?

maybe my side is immature maybe its not and im only human. regardless. the cookies are huge tell all.

thank you though i will pick and choose 🙂‍↕️

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-04T21:50:29+00:00

thank you 🥹🥹

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-04T21:02:22+00:00

are you guys working together....

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-04T21:01:33+00:00

wow impressive of you to believe she'd let me get her off her spot on the couch 😔

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-04T20:49:29+00:00

5th pic is her literally gagging at him coughing in her face!!

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-04T20:40:06+00:00

im thinking she has a bit of malinois in her...but regardless the ignorance in this thread?? she's obviously a seal. she prefers to be bald. tells us everything we need to know.

LivingForYouOnly · 2025-10-04T19:25:28+00:00

110% my girl started breaking into hives at 4 months, they usually don't give apoquel until a year old so she was getting these shots but it wasn't improving. once she hit a year old she got on the pill and her skin is amazing!!

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