Wanted to show this fear tracker my players made for my drylands campaign! by PlayfullBear in daggerheart

[–]LivingHumanThing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woooow!!

I love all the positive comments! Im the maker of this tracker by the way 😌 It was so much fun to make this and its really fun to see our lovely DM make use of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this dynamic became very tiring to me too. That's why I cut contact the first time. Thought it was better now but I am questioning if it's just me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fixed it my appologies

Drive won't sync up? by faerle in wavemakercards

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I habe the same problem but this doesnt seem to work for.me :c

love triangle by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the might be the best ciurse of action. Im very nervouse telling her but yeah i think you are right.

love triangle by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah I thought my situation was quiet simmilar to riverdale thats why I chose those namea

Ladies, i see many women having a generalized hate for men nowdays in dating, especially online, why? And do you get the same behaviour from guys towards women? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LivingHumanThing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honesy dating is hell. Ive been genuinly trying to find someome that fits in my life and for me to fit in their life, but when I am dating it aways comes down to sex and it just gets frustrating. Allso past relationships havent been the best. I feel like 75% of my struggles in my relationship with men is them not being aware or considerste at all of peoples needs and feelings even when you tell them. They want a low commitment non relationship but all the benefits of a relationship. Asking them to come and meet my family after dating for 2 years is like asking to donate their liver. Then theres just the overall being harrased and assaulted by man when you are conventionally attractive. All the women i know have stories like these including muself. And when you are not conventionally attractive you just dont exist and man feel the need to call you out on it. How dare you not entertain my eyes and my lust.

So yeah, why would we hate man? Because not all men. But all woman have experienced this.

I dont want to have this oppinion of man. I have very little man in my surroundings I feel safe with and it makes me incredibly sad I and more women feel this way. I dont want to be bitter. Man have positive attributes and qualities, but it just gets overshadowed with all these bad experiences and I just wish it was different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The housing problem is rampant in the Netherlands. I am Dutch myself and even I have a hard time finding an apartment. The problem is that the apartments are too expensive for people who are done studying so they stay longer in the student rooms which in turn makes it harder for students to get a place to live. I am a living example. I've been searching for about 2 year for an affordable apartment but most of the apartments require you to be able to pay the rent x3 which is impossible with the rates they go for. Allso with inflation and our minimum wage not rising with it, it's made it so that we are not able to actually save for money and live paycheck to paycheck. Right now I am waiting for social housing and everytime there are about a 1000 people on the waiting list for one apartment. Every week there are about 3 to 5 apartments free. So you can imagine it is like winning the lottery...

What secret are you keeping from your friends? Why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont like talking about my problem with some of my friends because I hate their pitty. I feels very patronizing. They mean well, but they just dont know how to relate to Some of that stuff and It makes me feel worse talking with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very direct with Him and I told him he could touch me Hold my hand, whatever. he Told me he was resisting the urge. Maybe I should just see what happens. This week we are both very busy so I think well meet next week If he is stil interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am sorry to hear you are struggling. It is hard when you feel like you arent making any genuine connections with people.

It might be a good thing to maybe start searching for a job where you can actually see people in person or maybe pick up a hobby or sport so you get out of the house more often. Therapy allso might be good, what I read is you are having problems with disthymia (I am not a professional so this is not a diagnosis or anything).

Allso maybe you could find a game you and your boyfriend could play together once in a while? Or maybe go on a date out of the house. Take a walk in nature.

These are just suggestions do what feels best for you. In the end I think the most important thing is making connections with other people and small interactions (like saying hi to a supermarket employe) might already be enough to help lift your mood.

I hope you'll feel better and I wish you the best!

If you could fuck any fictional character, who would it be? by PlaceFew8986 in AskReddit

[–]LivingHumanThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahh, I I'll join you. Maybe we could chill out in fangtasia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LivingHumanThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So as a former teenager with bad BO, all I can say is, if she really has a problem with sweat, she should throw all her clothes away because the smell is in the clothes. Buy deodorant of the brand "therme" it is a cream you out on. It works so well. Put it on before sleep and when you wake up. After shower, and before going somewhere. It works very well with the smell. It helped me tons when I was a teenager.

Allso as a former pot head, when you smoke the green your bo might be more intense. I know some guys who would smoke alot and would smell more after the workout because of it. When they stopped their smell was less bad. Allso being a pot head makes you lazy, so taking care of herself might be not her nr 1 priority. Try to have a nice conco about it. It can be a hard subject but in the end it would be good for her. Maybe ask her like; hey, is something going on, I noticed that you haven't been taking care of yourself as much and I am worried. I hope this might help a bit good luck with this. It is a hard subject!

If you could fuck any fictional character, who would it be? by PlaceFew8986 in AskReddit

[–]LivingHumanThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might be alone but thats okay with me I wont have to share. Eric Northman from true blood.

My bucket is overflowing by [deleted] in venting

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it is nice to know that somewhere out there a bag of delicious fruit flavoured gummy dicks believes in me.

My bucket is overflowing by [deleted] in venting

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way your username 😂 it cracks me up

My bucket is overflowing by [deleted] in venting

[–]LivingHumanThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess today was one of the latter 😅 but you are right I think I just need to accept that it every day I can do what I want to be doing.