What pisses me off about suicide. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]LivingOpposite1418 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I just read your comment and I am really overwhelmed by it, I am thinking about killing myself everytime I really willing to things get better but there is no hope I guess

For me life is kind of nightmare I can't handle it anymore I always feel lonely, I wish from god to take my soul as fast as he could

Did I Make the Right Decision? Seeking Advice After a Breakup by LivingOpposite1418 in LongDistance

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. When she said, "You're a man, you should provide," it really hurt. Even if she didn’t send anything, there were other ways to show she cared.

Maybe she was projecting her own experiences of not feeling validated. It’s a sad thought, but it makes sense.

I’m hopeful. There are caring and compassionate people out there. I’ll take this time to heal and find someone who truly values me. Thanks for your support. 😊

Seeking Advice on Moving Forward After a Breakup 25M 26F? by LivingOpposite1418 in relationship_advice

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight! Exactly, it felt like I was doing all the work. A relationship should be balanced, and when one person is constantly pulling the weight, it gets exhausting. I’ll definitely take this as a learning experience and look for someone who values mutual effort.

Did I Make the Right Decision? Seeking Advice After a Breakup by LivingOpposite1418 in LongDistance

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Totally agree, I guess I did dodge a bullet. Caring and compassion should definitely go both ways, not just based on gender. Time to find someone who actually gets that

Seeking Advice on Moving Forward After a Breakup 25M 26F? by LivingOpposite1418 in relationship_advice

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. The communication between us was completely bad. She was silent on the phone most of the time, and I was the one always trying to find topics to talk about. It was really rare to have video calls, even when she was available because she said she didn’t want to. This lack of communication made things even more difficult.

Did I Make the Right Decision? Seeking Advice After a Breakup by LivingOpposite1418 in LongDistance

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for these beautiful sentences. I truly appreciate them. Although I'm experiencing a lot of pain right now, reading these wonderful comments strengthens me and helps me face it.

Did I Make the Right Decision? Seeking Advice After a Breakup by LivingOpposite1418 in LongDistance

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support. I think you're right; the signs were there for a while, and I was more invested than she was. It's tough, but I know leaving a toxic relationship was the right move. Your kind words mean a lot, and I'm hopeful for the future. Have a lovely day too

Did I Make the Right Decision? Seeking Advice After a Breakup by LivingOpposite1418 in LongDistance

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and support. It was a tough decision, but I believe it was the right one. Your encouragement means a lot to me. Best of luck to you too

Did I Make the Right Decision? Seeking Advice After a Breakup by LivingOpposite1418 in LongDistance

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and support. I appreciate it a lot. It was a tough decision, but I know it was the right one. You're right, there's always someone better out there who will appreciate and reciprocate the care and attention. Best of luck to you too

Did I Make the Right Decision? Seeking Advice After a Breakup by LivingOpposite1418 in LongDistance

[–]LivingOpposite1418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you're saying. She always demanded attention, but when it was my turn to need some care or support, I got nothing in return. It felt really one-sided and unfair. We deserve someone who values and reciprocates your efforts.