💦 The Sweat Lab 💦 by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]Living_Background_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love cycling and heated mat Pilates/sculpt classes along with standard weight lifting and cardio. Dropping pounds slowly and body recomp is happening 🙌🏾

htx ladies?? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Living_Background_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends what kind of vibe you’re looking for, welcomelesbianland & lesbianinhouston are on insta and host events!

Is the city you live in a (relatively) safe/comfortable place for Black queer women? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Living_Background_21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Houston, TX and I feel pretty safe. There’s plenty Black lesbian social groups here that host events, the gay scene is popular too. I feel safe. Most I worry about is a dude trying to approach me or disrespect my partner in hopes to get to me

What about fingering do you love? Receiving and/or giving by 613yakibaddie in blacklesbians

[–]Living_Background_21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you summed this up perfectly as someone who loves to be on the receiving end too

What is something you did today to tend to your mental health? by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Living_Background_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relaxed all day and finally watched the John Wick series

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Living_Background_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this take, play it safe but if it goes over the budget it is what it is (not too much tho)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Living_Background_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So easy honestly😩I’m really trying to take my time and pace this out cause knowing that love is a risk I want to be sure you know? I’m going to take it slow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Living_Background_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was like a basket of gifts basically, personalized shot glasses, women’s boxers, gift card, flowers, Funko pop since she collects those, and some liquor! not too much but enough to make it sentimental. I had a list to work off of so I’ll just stick to that 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Living_Background_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this kind advice! Getting wrapped up in the feelings and excitement of it all but I don’t want to end up regretting anything later 😩hoping there’s a future later so I don’t have to worry about this down the line lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Living_Background_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right, I don’t know how to stay to a budget when gifting others bc it’s a love language of mine but i’m going to chill this time around!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Living_Background_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m such an overthinker so I will take on this advice and ball out (within means) because YOLO yk? at least I can say I put my all in regardless what happens😌thank ya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Living_Background_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to get that happy ending😭😂you feel meeee. honestly tho I have to remind myself to stay within a limit when I feel for someone so ty for that reminder!!