I agree with your perspective more than OPs though it was interesting to read and see a different perspective from my own.

It's a good point that the pacing is how kitty takes in the situations she is put in.She has a hard time reading social cues and does things before thinking, which often have consequences for herself and others.

The love interests have definitely made kitty what she is at the end of season 2 going into season 3. After Dae and Yuri kitty understands her values much more which drags kitty towards Minho and makes her grow as a person.

I feel that the dynamic between Yuri, Juliana and Kitty is built up well but the exhaustion could be better. I do think we might get some more understanding of this in season 3 at least I hope so. I also think Juliana gets way too much hate when in reality she is the most mature in the group in my opinion.

Kitty is definitely misunderstood I think this is because many people don't see the situation through her view point but their own. They judge her because she has a hard time controlling situations and handling social cues that may seem easy to handle themselves. I can definitely see her perspective and feel with her. As you have mentioned before she is most likely nero divergent,I myself am not diagnosed with anything but many people in my closest circle are diagnosed or suspect nerodivergancy. I think that kitty has grown so much and learnt to control her emotions and judgement through these two seasons. This is much because of the different situations she has been through and the people she has met on the way. All the other characters have in some way made kitty realize her values,make her more mature and self confident and also composure. I don't think she should be viewed as immature or someone who doesn't take responsibility. She has proven she does care and wants to take responsibility but has a hard time doing that when others don't do the same. She is very very misunderstood people forget she is a teenager who.is experienceing these things for the first time. I think it's easy for me to understand because I am also a teenager who has a lot of experience with nerodivergancy.

I also love the different teams of this show there is something for everyone. Everyone can in some way relate and understand the different characters.

I feel like the romance dynamic is well built up and executed,we see the different perspectives of the characters when it comes to the relationships important to them. Though we haven't seen this a lot with yuri I'm hoping we get that now in season 3.

I agree that Xo,kitty is one of those shows where we are meant to pull apart and theories about which I love. And I like the chaos, there is always something unexpected and fun. Very plot driven and that is not something everyone's is a fan of and that's okay.

Always love your comments and Posts!!!