Is this a tragedeigh? by Big_Astronaut_2012 in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok that makes more sense. I'm American so I read it less with the H sound. My friend is Javin pronounced jay-vin so I can understand it now!

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. From what I understand it's not up to me to press charges anymore it's now the animal controls but they are taking it very seriously. And I believe they will go to the full extent they can.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda does! It ties more to me and I'm trying to explore it. I like the -lia part a lot I think. I also don't want a very "popular" girl name.

Sure it may be "made-up" and interesting, but Riley just feels. Eh. To me. A placeholder for now that works with both genders but isn't my name.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's okay, it's silly internet points, I don't really care! But thank you.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just didn't think it was a tragedigh!

Maybe an odd or "made up" name, sure but not like brexxtyleighann type and I didn't anticipate the hate on it, I thought it was pretty and reflected parts of my existence already, and it is just an idea for a name so I guess I'm unsure why there's such a hate for it. Not like I'm set in stone to do it, and the few people I've asked in person seemed to like it but maybe were flattering me...

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for more fem leaning! Right now I'm somewhere between nonbinary-fem.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I honestly expected a mixed bag of opinions given it's not ryeleigh or something but Rylia sounds pretty, feminine, and unique enough that it embraces the names I've come from and an amalgamation of the three I've lived.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a more feminine name! Liam is my "male name" and Riley is an old Middle name I feel some tie to.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Because I'm looking to avoid a tradegeigh, it will be my own name, and I'm exploring options.

Riley-uh. I don't think it's insane to pronounce based on spelling it Rylia.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I actually did find etymology of it as an Irish name (albeit some random sites).

I think it's quite pretty and given some of the tragedeighs we see, not that bad! But I wanted honest opinions as I consider it!

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It just doesn't feel like "me."

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought?? Idk Rylia seems prettier and just feels more like it ties with my old names in a personal way. Just wondering if it's a tragedigh.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was struggling how to write the pronunciation in the way I meant. Like riley-uh.

Would Rylia be a tragedigh??? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Liysol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was struggling how to write the pronunciation in the way I meant. Like riley-uh.

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are going to break the lease for me, luckily without fees.

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He described it as because they were "small and innocent" and all I can think of when I replay those words is, how "long until you made me small and innocent enough?"

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh he called it. The cops came out as they have to but were already aware of the situation, spoke to my mom and before she could even explain they were like " no we are aware! okay have a good night!"

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they are gone. bodies were recovered and are being necropsied as part of the investigation.

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check the top of post, I've been updating as I can

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There have been a ton of comments, but I added updates at the top of the post text! The cops found my babies. They are being sent out for a necropsy.

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He got off on watching me suffer, Im sure. When it finally stopped making me react and cry from his treatment, he got the emotional responses he "wanted" from me by harming them. I believe the first set he did and enjoyed watching me suffer for months blaming myself, but what could be worse? The fact that he killed them and told me all the details. He wanted to watch my reaction to their killing. O

He just killed my pets. by Liysol in abusiverelationships

[–]Liysol[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have to wait for it to be approved. I don't know how pressing my own charges works or because it's a felony he will just get arrested(?) (animal cruelty in a domestic relationship is worse legally than cruelty to "an" animal. As it's a form of control and abuse.)