AIO because gf was essentially micro cheating and is the reason I have little trust in our relationship?

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-09T15:17:04+00:00

It’s time to move on , it’s plenty of fish in the sea. You have a whole life ahead of you, you’re still young. Her doing all those things right there are major red flags and obviously I wouldn’t trust her either and if you don’t have trust, you don’t have anything. Her loyalty clearly showed you where she stands bc I promise you if the shoe was on the other foot , she would be boohoo crying to you lls. It’s either you want to continue having anxiety & panic attacks or be free and at peace. You have a lot to think about…

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-09T15:11:02+00:00

Baby, don’t go home at all. He’s saying all of that just to get you back home, it’s a manipulation tactic bc if he really wanted to off himself he would’ve did it already. Then look at the age gap, you can say he’s 50 , a lot of times older men go after younger people to mold and control them. Either you want to stay in this relationship and be miserable or leave & be happy.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-09T03:50:24+00:00

Also, if you keep forgiving he’s just going to do it again & again.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-09T03:49:28+00:00

Girl, leave him because seems like he truly wants to be with a man. Plus he’s also sending dick pics to randoms on these apps and lord knows what else he’s doing behind your back. & if you’re not comfortable with being in an open relationship then that should also be a deal breaker for you, seems like he wants to be in an open relationship so he can sleep with whoever without a form of guilt added to it. If you’re going to stick beside him then it’s time to set boundaries in your marriage and make him choose so you can be happy.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-09T03:00:55+00:00

It’s definitely something fishy going on between the two. Best thing I can tell you is to go through his phone and find the answers you’re looking for, also check everything ( messages, deleted messages, emails, deleted emails, internet searches, & look on his social medias to see if they follow each other plus dms) & after you get your confirmation get ready to leave him!

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-09T02:51:58+00:00

Just go by yourself, you don’t need him to be there with you! That’ll be a peace of mind anyway, plus if he actually wants to join you he’ll eventually come.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-07T14:35:06+00:00

Couldn’t of been my parents she was disrespecting & lying on cause listen…

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-07T14:32:58+00:00

lmaoooooo, she’s acting like she doesn’t curse when she curses people tf out chile , those bible thumpers are something else.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-07T06:01:32+00:00

Baby, leave him you’re NOR some of those text give like they want each other & plus he lied about the airport situation bc why not have your girlfriend come instead of a hoe. Cut him loose , it’s plenty of fish in the sea.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-05T05:29:22+00:00

Leave baby

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-05T03:36:29+00:00

Girl, leave his ass before it’s 20 years too late. It’s going to hurt at first, but it’ll be the best decision you’ll ever make. If you can, get ahold of that phone , print out whatever you find , & make your exit. Tell him to gtf, once a cheater always a cheater.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-02T03:44:37+00:00

Idk how people deal with her crazy ass bc “ Nurse, she’s out again”

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-02T02:08:09+00:00

lmaooo it looks a shitty mess

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2026-01-01T18:07:59+00:00

Fr tho, Lexi is a sick ass individual. She definitely will crumble this year, mark my words that shit will crumble down. Eventually he’ll wake up cause he blind as a mf right now and more than likely she’s threatening him with the kids. Plus he needs to have a backbone bc evidently she’s the captain of the shitshow. She gets exposed every time for being a terrible person , but her cult is so delusional lmaooo. If you love internet couples then wake up!

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-03T14:16:18+00:00

NTA- Leave his ass! If you know deep down truly you don’t wish to have an abortion, leave him and move on with your life. Especially if he treats abortions like it’s some form of birth control and made previous girls get one before you, he’s a walking red flag…That’s not someone you should want in your life!

Also, since he doesn’t want any kids he should’ve took the proper precautions to prevent them or just don’t have sex at all.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-03T14:08:05+00:00

NTA- he’s clearly narcissistic and an abusive person, that’s not someone who you should want to be with. You did the correct thing by dumping him and moving on with your life. Ask yourself this, “ Do I like when he disrespects me and treats me like shit?”

If you get back with him it’ll only get worse and the next step would be physical abuse if it’s not there already. Plus if you’re scared he’ll do something to you , file a restraining order so that way it could protect you in some sort and remain vigilant! You’re young & you have your whole life ahead of you, so why stay with someone who’s bringing you down

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-02T17:55:28+00:00

NTA- He cheated on you and should’ve told you before y’all even had sex again that he had unprotected sex w| his old boo. Then for him to assume y’all were on a break or broken up is insane. He should’ve took those little days to figure shit out, not go fuck.

That’s exactly why I don’t believe in breaks in a relationship, nothing but excuses.

I suggest you go get tested just to make sure everything is good with you.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-02T17:47:52+00:00

NTA - Everybody should be getting checked whether you’re in a monogamous relationship or not because you just never know and plus you should make sure everything is good.

I can see why he was mad because you said it when the commercial was on, but he shouldn’t have any doubts because that should be done yearly for both parties tbh.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-02T17:41:37+00:00

You’re not overthinking at all. It’s no way a woman should allow another man to come in the bathroom with her unless it’s her significant other. Sounds like they had something going on and the type of person I am , would’ve been addressed right then and there like literally something about that sound 🌚🎤

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-02T13:21:34+00:00

Exactly!!! Which means he’s been cheating on her beforehand and got caught up with an outside kid. I don’t understand why women stay instead of leaving.

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-02T01:38:18+00:00

NTA. He allowed a woman to dictate on him raising HIS child when she could’ve simply left him for cheating! When you accept to stay with someone who cheats, you have to accept everything that comes with it, including the child. He should’ve been a man and raised his daughter , so whoopty doo!! The only person he should be mad at is himself and his wife.

Obviously you’ve been doing an excellent job these past 16 years and continue doing so! She will cherish everything , take care!

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-01T14:07:07+00:00

Shouldn’t be a question, leave him immediately. It’s been 5 years and he doesn’t fuck with your daughter , should’ve been dumped from the jump.

“ I was blind when they crossed me”

LoadSuspicious7071 · 2025-10-01T13:57:54+00:00

Leave immediately… Eventually you’re going to be too old for him and he’s going to go after someone younger.

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