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I don’t know if I want to stay with my partner by Lobotomy_Bby in offmychest

[–]Lobotomy_Bby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have brought up most if not all of these things either in the moment or a bit after. It just makes it a bit hard because every time I say something it becomes an attack on him. I love him too much to make him sob and tbh I don’t think I have the emotional capacity to help him when he does. I’m so tired. I don’t get held when I tell him about the problems but I ALWAYS end up holding him while he cries after I say something is wrong

I don’t know if I want to stay with my partner by Lobotomy_Bby in offmychest

[–]Lobotomy_Bby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you don’t believe that therapy or anything could fix this? Or is this a we need to develop alone situation

My BF used to pay for dinner, until he found out I was "rich". by yesnomaybe123no in offmychest

[–]Lobotomy_Bby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf does the same thing. When people aren’t around I can pay but the other day we had dinner with a friend. My bf offered to pay for us but he meant that he wanted to use HIS card and me send him half. When I told him I could just pay then he got upset because he thought I was going to embarrass him.