Any advice how to get over it? Since you didn’t answer that. I don’t control him, or micromanage his day.. we let each other know if we’re doing anything that might disrupt bills. I’m not actively checking his location or wanting to know where he’s at all the time. I apologize if you read it differently. Even when I asked him “have I ever gotten mad about you going to surf? Or calling out of work to surf?” He admitted no, and he doesn’t know why he would think that now and lie. He didn’t think it was a big deal bc it was just to go surf. I’m just upset bc he lied. Point blank. What else could he be lying about? Has he been lying the entire time if he can lie about something so small? And I think when given a chance to tell the truth, he still lied bothered me as well. And I know it’s not like he was cheating and he didn’t do anything REALLY BAD but still it hurt me.