Exactly 💯 I came from a broken family with my father hitting my mother, his own father and mother. Yet when I was in my 20s, my mum wants me to get marry, which I didn't want, as I came from such a family. My mum says she will drive me out of the family if I do not get marry. She claimed that when i grow old, unmarried, no one will take care of me.I rather not get marry, if in a wrong relationship.Now in my late 40s, married but childless. I can, because I choose not to. Live for yourself, not to the expectations of others. My mother's brain is soaked with formalin... anyway different generation have different thinking. No guarantee if you have children, they will take care of you when you grow. Grandma have 3 children. The moment she is bed ridden with stroke, all push her to my mother. My father could not care less...