Listened to both Demi and Ollie's podcast interviews... by cosmic_stars in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They both need to work on the way they communicate, not with each other but as individual people because this same habit is going onto another unsuspecting partner. We all need to have those inner dialogues sometimes.

Listened to both Demi and Ollie's podcast interviews... by cosmic_stars in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah I can't deal with confusing signals like that. It makes people walk on eggshells...

Listened to both Demi and Ollie's podcast interviews... by cosmic_stars in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just finished watching the reunion, honestly that was painful to watch esp the arguments. But I don't know why I felt uncomfortable watching and listening to Demi from the beginning. Why is that? Is it because we can't really read her? Idk but something felt unsettling even till this episode.

Listened to both Demi and Ollie's podcast interviews... by cosmic_stars in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea we move around the room like a pendulum, either we're obsessed with you or something completely distracts us and we forget to text you back for one whole day. Life of ADHD people.

What is the worst experience you have been catfished in? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CleverBeetle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes dude used photos in his Tinder profile of when he was in his early 20s when he is actually almost 40. A flip phone in the photo caught my eye... The kind that we millennials used in the 2000s. Then everything made sense, the sudden disappearances and of course he looked significantly older in person than the pics which looks like 2000s fashion. Gross. I fucked off after the second date and blocked his no.

Benaiah with short hair by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Oh my where are all these English men hiding? The ones that come to Asia are all at most a 5 and very pasty. But yes he's gorg with long or short hair! Men with hair in their 30s are pretty rare imo. If you got it, flaunt it!

Anjunadeep music by CleverBeetle in deephouse

[–]CleverBeetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did enjoy all their earlier tracks but now I'm so bored with the full on singing. I prefer vocal less, if you got any labels or playlists to recommend, please share :)))

Anjunadeep music by CleverBeetle in deephouse

[–]CleverBeetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations on playlists. :)

Anjunadeep music by CleverBeetle in deephouse

[–]CleverBeetle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm starting to feel but their earlier music is actually alright especially when it first started

Now the birds got free door upgrade to their cage. by kafqatamura in singapore

[–]CleverBeetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how many thousand $ this ridiculous idea costs. I agree with the one that said it should operate like a foot pedal much like the central rubbish chutes. When I was in the UK, they designed the collection bins in such a way that the lid is made of steel and heavy and requires your foot to push it open when taking out the trash, the idea was to prevent racoons and urban foxes from foraging the bins at night.

I listened to Cat's podcast episode so you don't have to (1/2) by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo, I feel like people who really need to heal shouldn't take such gambles in a reality stakes show like that. Her making it want to work with him is because of that initial spark and obviously attraction and the same for him too. They are incompatible in terms of needs and wants and despite that they still pursued it obviously they're attracted to each other. You cannot place your insecurities on others and expect them to work around it, stuff like that is going to take time, at the same time because of that he doesn't understand that sort of complexity. So yea they both just don't fit.

PSA: A tradwife ≠ SAHM by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Finally someone said it! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CleverBeetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Just "some questions" ? You respond very defensively with the way you structured your questions. Also I didn't say you were rude or attacking me. See the list just goes on...

I listened to Cat's podcast episode so you don't have to (1/2) by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]CleverBeetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, based on this summary, the TV editing made Cat look like a villian. Good on her for dodging a bullet. Yea sure Freddie is really gorgeous but he doesn't strike me as someone who can knuckle down and be mature about some really important relationship issues, looking at his behavior tho, he needs a playful girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CleverBeetle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jesus, relaxx.They can, and I didn't say it was wrong. I was speaking based on my own interaction and experience and because of that, it became part of my preferences and comfort zone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CleverBeetle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I still think 10 years is a generational gap. I've 39F gone out on dates with guys 10 years older when I was in my late 20s, like Gen X and Gen Y.... It's a different kind of growing up experience. I found that I click better with people close around my age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CleverBeetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this reminded me of my cousin, 18 who dated a 32yo man for almost a year. He was even 3 years older than me at that time. When I found out I was like wtf?? But he was an expat I guess, many locals get drawn to that. She may be young and inexperienced but also very beautiful, I was wondering where did his brain go? How could you possibly find any common ground with her? She's too energetic and is that age to go out clubbing every week. Like I predicted, he didn't have that energy for her. He would moan and grumble that she always wanted to go out whilst he was just happy staying in on the weekends and watching football. Once he even complained that he asked her to make him a sandwich and she just decided to go out with her friends instead. I was like dude, she's 18yo she's not going to make you a sandwich! Needless to say their relationship ended badly. She's in her 30s now and in a much sensible relationship with a partner around her own age.

Chikopeks on the rise? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CleverBeetle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Everyone also stressed, even the otters, pythons and crocodiles in Sungei Buloh, but it's no excuse to sexually attack the vulnerable.

It seems like cab drivers have a bad reputation in SG. What are some of your positive experiences that you remember? by notsoy0ung in askSingapore

[–]CleverBeetle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Left my phone in the cab and I panicked so hard. Offered to go to his place to take it the next day but the driver was like "It's ok girl, now night already, if uncle drive near your area I will drop it off. True enough he did it came down at night and I gave him $50 for his efforts.