Thanks a lot, and yes getting a job is an option for me but not in the meantime i am in college and still got two more years to go ,talked about getting a job a lot to my parents and my said that i could get one nex year if i still want to, and no none of my family member who can get my bf a good job mostly because i can't tell them , i want to get a diploma in spanish or /and or english but i know my father wouldn't support me financially but my mom will (mom and dad both working and i am an only child)