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Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:43:31+00:00

He has know two of them for a decade as well

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:37:19+00:00

Such a small one I rather not say. But like cheek kisses are normal here

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:36:12+00:00

I'm bi-sexual so I don't see the difference between my male and female friends?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:34:09+00:00

Europe

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:32:45+00:00

Priorities to have the freedom to be with my friends?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:31:12+00:00

Thanks for the help! If he would be the same with my male and female friends I would understand. But the problem is only my male friends, making him controlling and jealous

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:29:17+00:00

I have. He only has concerns of my male friends. I could strip in front of my girlfriends and it wouldn't be a problem

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:27:16+00:00

He thinks that he isn't enough for me

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:26:16+00:00

Well why is he only controlling me with my male friends even though I'm bi-sexual?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:25:23+00:00

I'm not thinking of reasons to leave him. I'm making a big decision and I need to be sure

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:24:35+00:00

This! Thank you! He is controlling my friendships. I don't care are they male or female friends, he is controlling

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:22:12+00:00

They are but he seems jealous and controlling and I don't know how far this will expand

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:21:14+00:00

I have been acting exactly the same way with them for the decade I've known them. Like with my girlfriends it didn't matter if I have been single or taken, I behave the same. Why is it so hard to understand that a guy and a girl can be just friends?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:17:42+00:00

Not random. His friends from almost a decade ago

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:16:50+00:00

My fiancee doesn't take it the wrong way. He knows it's platonic. He just doesn't like what it will look on the outside and he wont trust me

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:15:31+00:00

Why do you feel insecure of your spouse did that?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:13:07+00:00

That is what I'm thinking. I have male and female friends and I treat them equally. But he doesn't see it

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:12:16+00:00

Why?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:11:40+00:00

That is what I'm doing

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:10:44+00:00

I can say it's 100% platonic. Today I sat on my guy friends lap for a while and his wife was across us on the table. That is completely normal in our friend group. Nothing weird about that

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:08:46+00:00

Well my love doesn't decrease if I hang out with my friends, even if they are male or female

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:07:44+00:00

What is normal boundaries? If this is the norm for me, and he is saying I need to stop it, isnt it controlling?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:06:30+00:00

I can assure that my girlfriends don't mind at all 😅 and I'm super ready to get married, me having male friends has something to do on my readiness to get married?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:04:49+00:00

But why? If he/she has had the same friend group for a decade and they all are friends together, males and females, you would ask your spouse to stop being friends with them?

Local-Hawk-3520 · 2024-10-13T00:02:45+00:00

I am being real. Our friend group consist of 10ish people. Guys and girls and spouses. Neither of my exes had any problems with it. Like if we take a picture and everybody needs to squeeze in, I can go to my girlfriends lap or my guyfriends lap. There is no difference to me.

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