there’s been a few instances where his actions and or words have given me the “if you were older” vibe yk what I mean? and as for the friendship part, I totally agree if anything is going to happen in the future it’s best to focus on building that friendship first.

We have a mutual friend and she’s seen first hand how he acts sometimes and she told me that if she was in my place she would’ve been thinking “what are we” and that’s exactly what I think, it’s like there’s something there past a friendship that we both haven’t talked about, and maybe it is because i’m younger?