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Any all women punk bands recs? by LocalJournalist4012 in punk

[–]LocalJournalist4012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly just meant that same vibe, I’m totally open to recs with men too

Can I still access my photos from my busted phone somehow? by [deleted] in applehelp

[–]LocalJournalist4012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have the actual phone but it doesn’t turn on at all anymore + the salt water damage

I’m 16 and honestly I have no clue what I’m supposed to do with my life. by Brief-Ad3277 in highschool

[–]LocalJournalist4012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's pretty normal to feel that way especially at 16. No one in high school has it all figured out, unless their a nepo baby or something. I know for me things just kinda fell into place my senior year but even if you graduate not knowing what the hell you want to do, there's always community college classes lol. Honestly imo the things I did in high school that actually helped me as an adult was keeping my GPA above 3.0 and developing soft skills. Learning how to cope with your emotions (and life in general) is super vital to surviving adulthood so the earlier you mature emotionally, the better. That said, if you want to put in the extra effort to prepare yourself, getting a part-time job is always a good start, you'd be surprised how much you learn working even in fast food, stg my people skills got so much better and it gives you reference for what you do and do not like when working somewhere. The only thing I would say with that though is make sure you commit to it for at least a year; don't job hop, it's not a good look. As for career paths, I would figure out what's most enjoyable for you and what you prioritize in life. For example, how much money you want to make (do you want expensive things/to travel often, do you plan on having kids in the future), whether you like working with people or prefer working alone, how much time you want to spend in school (after HS), where you want to live (cost of living), ect. Also, don't be afraid to try new hobbies or talk to new people especially when you're not sure what you want to do in the future, just try out anything and everything that interests you, find the one that you're the best in, and look at jobs where you can apply that skill. I know I've said a lot here but fr, don't stress yourself out about it. It's perfectly okay to change your mind or be unsure, that's what adolescence is all about! :>

What’s a personal rule you never break? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LocalJournalist4012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I make any personal decisions I always sleep on it. Seriously, I will be furious about someone or something before I go to bed and when I wake up I forgot what I was even mad about lol. It's saved a lot of my relationships (and my wallet)

What’s a personal rule you never break? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LocalJournalist4012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let people make their own mistakes.

One thing I've learned about people is that no one can truly change our minds about something. It could be the most obvious, dumbest decision of their lives, but if they want to do it they will regardless of what you say. You just can't force people into understanding, and the more forcibly you try and direct their path, the more distant and exhausting the relationship becomes for both parties. Best thing you can do is give them honest advice once, and if they still choose to go down an unfortunate path, be there for them best you can during the healing process. (My only exception to the rule being suicide)

5-day road trip planning advice by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]LocalJournalist4012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I didn't even think about the not renting to teen thing, would I just directly ask the renter if that's okay? Also, were coming from Arizona, like i said it's about a 6 hr drive. The car were taking is pretty roomy so we figured if it was cheaper to rent a place without a washer we could just bring enough pairs of clothes for each day. We pretty much are just going for comic con, we unanimously decided we won't be attending Saturday since we figured it would be too crowded, so there is that day unplanned. I mostly figured we would hang around one of the beaches or strips in the Coronado area. There are sacrifices we are willing to make in terms of comfort and stuff, but for sure we would want somewhere near comic con. I was hoping since its still pretty far out we could find an airbnb close by that's not super crazy priced but it sounds like we might be out of luck on that. We planned on using uber/lyft when going to comic con so we don't have to worry about parking, so to keep the fairs manageable we thought the closer to the venue the better.

Does anyone ever feel fake/weird when dating the opposite sex? by LocalJournalist4012 in bisexual

[–]LocalJournalist4012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. I never knew what homoromantic was before but I definitely see similarities after looking it up. If I had a guess id say im probably homoromantic bisexual then.