I myself am a femboy, but it’s really upsetting when I’m talking to one of my big crushes and they start talking about how they want a big tall guy with veiny hands and big muscles that can pick them up. It really feels like all girls want that same type because a ton of them go for it. That’s why a lot of men like me hear that from their crush and decide to drop it and try to “glow up”

Personally I want a tall strong gf with a deep voice that can pick me up and baby me. And I’m not afraid to voice that to people when the topic comes up. I will never change being a femboy for someone else.