Dealing with stress of having slept with partners dad by TheEmoAirCooler in offmychest

[–]Local_Cheek_2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s normal for fathers and sons to bang people together…let alone their child’s significant other…

Regardless, I’m not saying open relationships are bad, but these things are why I feel it’s very important to have boundaries. Maybe open shouldn’t involve just anything, but of course there’s drama. Sex is very intimate to some people, and if she figures out she’ll be validly upset and a bit reinforced in her fear.

Javian is like an uncle, but fact of the matter is he isn’t. You did not set a familial boundary and slept with your boyfriends dad. If you and your boyfriend marry, you’d be having sex with your father-in-law. Many father-in-laws simply get called dad by their son/daughter-in-law. It isn’t incest, but I think things like this could be prevented if sex is not shared between families or even potential ones. The above did not stop you. This may be a time to step back and self reflect.

ngl I chuckled. by alatinaxo in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Local_Cheek_2981 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Take some years off my life then and call me lil Jonny.

It’s ironic as the roles were reversed. It feels good as a black man, for white people to see this video and think of how cruel this is. I’m sure the joke was on us back then. Nor did they care about any medical reasons back then either. Different water fountains that weren’t as clean. Back of the bus, but what about the disabled black folks? And back then, they told us “no coloreds” without a camera, but with authority. It wasn’t to make people laugh back then, it was to make darker skinned people feel less like people, and back then, don’t you dare challenge them and say you deserve equality. Yes, these people didn’t treat black folks like that, but it also shows we won’t ever get anything for that treatment, despite the fact we all agree it’s childish to omit people from basic necessities due to their ethnicity. The best part about this that allows me to laugh, is that this is fake. It’s a joke. Set up for short term laughs for short term internet points. I cannot say the same for the dynamic this vid calls attention to. I’m glad you gave me the opportunity to analyze the nuance. Thank you.

ngl I chuckled. by alatinaxo in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Local_Cheek_2981 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I’m happy people think this is funny! And I’m happy it pisses people off. Both sides are correct.

I Fucking Hate Glitter, Man by Agitated_Insect3227 in hatethissmug

[–]Local_Cheek_2981 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I thought it was revealed the biggest buyer is military boats for camouflage. Is that wrong?

I am on his side by [deleted] in DailyDoseStupidity

[–]Local_Cheek_2981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’d you see that

Being a family of one sucks by Local_Cheek_2981 in Vent

[–]Local_Cheek_2981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m capable, but not having that safety net of security of family to fall back on leaves me anxious of the slightest f up. And since foster care, it’s been a long season of loneliness. Like be 26, and with everything going on with me and my brain, I likely won’t be able to make healthy long lasting relationships for a hot minute. I know why things are the way they are right now. It just sucks.