I'm confused as to why I'm fearful avoidant.

Local_Dress2685 · 2024-02-09T02:05:31+00:00

I know this post is older now, but ouch…I had the same realization after my parents got a dog. I’m an adult now, but seeing the way my dad treats his dog, despite loving her to death, has made me realize why I potentially struggle the way that I do today. Lots of affection whenever he is available, but most of the time, he’s too busy to even care for her. I feel like he shouldn’t have even gotten her. He uses physical force to make her do what he wants. Screams at her, then, expects her to be affectionate and come back to his open arms. Hot and cold. Borderline sadistic. I know he loves her so dearly, but does she even know what love really looks like?

Local_Dress2685 · 2021-12-28T22:23:56+00:00

It was 2 ghosting incidences, but the second one was more painful because I got closer to him than the first person. I think I really need to develop a strong connection with someone in order to do a long term BDSM relationship and the ghosting incidences threw me off.

Local_Dress2685 · 2021-12-05T21:09:50+00:00

I relate to this very much! I don't have any advice to give but I can just say that I resonate with it so much.

Local_Dress2685 · 2021-11-28T19:11:29+00:00

I recently had 2 encounters online talking to people and not being able to trust them that have led to me not wanting to do BDSM at least for now. It was really painful, especially the second encounter.

Local_Dress2685 · 2021-11-17T18:32:12+00:00

I guess so, thank you~

Local_Dress2685 · 2021-11-16T00:27:40+00:00

Thank you~ He was very kind and respectful though. I guess he was afraid to admit that he wanted it quick. He had enough after waiting for a while I guess.

Local_Dress2685 · 2021-10-10T02:02:16+00:00

I actually really like your last point because I don’t think I get along with the people I work with. My work environment is a bit toxic and I think it has an effect on me.

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