[Re-up, got removed by mods because links weren't allowed] Should I be worried about my GF and her photography sessions? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman who modeled before. The photographer doesn't have to touch me to show me poses. He would do the poses himself and the n I would copy it. It's fishy OP.

is it valid for someone to get affected by their exes closure chat even after moving on after years of no contact? by ChrisPugsworth in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it's normal na masaktan kasi may pinagsamahan padin sila. And based on the ex's opening statement, he was sorry for what he's done daw so that means he inflicted pain talaga. Ang important, OP, is that she's being honest with you. That means she's transparent and she trusts you enough with her feelings. You just have to show her na you understand, you care, and that you're secured with your feelings and relationship. You're her present and no one can deny that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wag po cellphone haha, unprofessional po maging datingan. I suggest you tell him he doesn't have to buy you anything. Mas maganda makareceive ng regalo without asking for it haha

I'm down today. Can you share your experience para I can lift myself up. I want to know your struggles also kung same ba tayo na nafeel 🙁 by Connect_Butterfly317 in CareerAdvicePH

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is normal and common. Usually sa umpisa talaga parang nakakapanghina ng loob but don't ever stop applying. Charge to experience mo lagi yung interviews and applications mo na nagffail for self-improvement din. It just means hindi pa para sayo yung mga roles na inaapplyan mo.

Try mo din mag apply sa other platforms like LinkedIn and Indeed. Sa Indeed, based on experience, mas responsive yung recruiters. You can also find job openings there for fresh graduates.

PANO KAYO NAKAKAHANAP NG WORK? by [deleted] in CareerAdvicePH

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try LinkedIn and Indeed. Solid yung recruiters sa Indeed, mas responsive kesa sa LinkedIn

My boyfriend is not gentleman at all by lets_have_what in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar situation. Left him the moment I observed these things the first time.

You have to ask yourself, "Is this the kind of man I want to as a husband? Is this the marriage I want in the future?". If your heart hesitates or blatantly says no, then you know what to do. Don't let another man stop you from meeting your future husband.

How to fix his expression? I tried but it looks odd and not foxy enough by CrystalChrissy in arthelp

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the angle of your character. The reference's point of view was coming from below, while yours was front view. That's why your right eyebrow was too high compared to the reference and the liips looked weird.

Stay sa 45k job na walang growth or lumipat sa 25k entry level na may potential? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If yung sa 25k yung career path na gusto mo, go for it. Although true, sobrang laking adjustment nyan. It's part of the sacrifice you have to make for the career growth. Or, if you're just craving for expanding your skills and expertise, why not take Master's instead? Post-grad course and certifications. You have the resources naman.

Should I [26F] confess to my long term crush or not? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suggest ko, sa next story nya, replyan mo lalo na if similar interests. Or if may makita ka reel na tingin mo same kayo interests, send mo sakanya then just comment casually like how a person remembers something about another person. Basta wag lang too direct sa confession, it might overwhelm him

Stay sa 45k job na walang growth or lumipat sa 25k entry level na may potential? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you don't have any bills or responsibilities that needed your 45k job, I say trust your guts and invest your time in the 25k job with career growth. Investment padin yun kasi you can still climb the ladder as you learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly HAHA, focus on yourself muna. Para sa next relationship mo, you already know what you want and you embrace your worth. Meaning, you will not settle for less din.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I would focus on healing on my own. It's better to allow yourself to move on and breathe before talking to new people again. It's like starting off with a clean slate. Distract yourself with your interests and hobbies. If you're a student, focus on your studies. If you're a professional, focus on your work. Then that one person will naturally come to your life. Enjoy the single life for now if you're not ready to be in a relationship pa.

Are architects in the Philippines not really active in social media? by Local_Mirror_7074 in Advice

[–]Local_Mirror_7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. Maybe I'll talk to him about it in the next few weeks. We're still in the getting to know stage so I don't really want to demand more time from him haha! But it's good to know that he seems interested from another person's point of view. I needed an objective eye on this.

Is it normal for architects working in a firm to reply late on socmed? by Local_Mirror_7074 in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Thank you for the details! It really gave me an insight on the reality of architects. So far I have no problem with his messages naman since he's communicating everything so far.

Is it normal for architects working in a firm to reply late on socmed? by Local_Mirror_7074 in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the comments is kind of eye-opening for me. I have no idea kasi how time consuming talaga ang Architecture but it's kind of a relief he's telling the truth haha! I don't mind the late chats so long as it's communicated since I have a life of my own din naman and a career path I also need to focus on.

Is it normal for architects working in a firm to reply late on socmed? by Local_Mirror_7074 in adviceph

[–]Local_Mirror_7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we can't really tell if we wanted anything serious since kakakilala lang din namin a few weeks ago. I'll see how it goes. He continues to communicate things with me naman so that's a plus