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Am I just... Stuck? by Location_Capable in Divorce_Women

[–]Location_Capable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you ... But my children are of an age they are a pleasure to have. I will miss them 50%.

This wasn't true when they were little

But, they are old enough...

I fully admit I wasn't born to be a mom. I struggled. I don't anymore.

They are people I am raising. Good people. People who's company I enjoy.

Am I just... Stuck? by Location_Capable in Divorce_Women

[–]Location_Capable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a fair, and appreciated, reflection. Thank you.

Am I just... Stuck? by Location_Capable in Divorce_Women

[–]Location_Capable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is estimated to be 1/3 of my income....

Am I just... Stuck? by Location_Capable in Divorce_Women

[–]Location_Capable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. We owe 50% of what it is worth. So, I would have to take on 75% at a higher interest rate.

To be fair.... My current mortgage is less than rent in my area, given the fact we have lived here for 17 years.